The Magic of Patience: A Childhood Habit That Pays Off

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In childhood times each one of us used to have many habits sometimes full of stubbornness that had consequences we never expected and parents used to guide us all the way where we need to improve and do better.


Gone are the days and now only habit I remember and still holds in adult life is something I'll share and how it's been paying off these last couple of years.


Childhood Days When....


I had many wishes and things increasing everytime I see a new one in store like gadgets mostly since I'm early Gen Z kid back then things like Ben 10 watch was a dream purchase.


Image by Denis from Pixabay

Collecting different pokemon cards, spinners and and building a collection of gadgets was quite a hustle.

At that time I wasn't like kid who'll argue and be stubborn until your parents get you what you want. Nah, in my case I knew my mom loves me but was strict and had her own way of fulfilling my wishes.

How she helped me develop Patience

Most of the time when I had something in mind that I want to buy and ask mom she never said no but not yes either.

It was like this "I'll get you one when it's right time but first you gotta study well and get good marks" that's the only condition I'll fulfil your wish.

At that time the craze of PC was at it's peak. back in days everyone playing GTA vice city and games but I didn't had PC at home.


Image by Aline Ponce from Pixabay

So, I asked mom when I was in 3rd class and she said I'll get you one if you got good grades and position.

Having patience was so hard back then but I never said same thing like wen PC every day and was more focused on studies for grades but I used to ask myself everyday that one day near to PC, one more day is gone, one more less day.

After waiting a half year when I saw my results it was like good I got second position in class while I was expecting first but than there was that girl who got first.. heh, I thought I ain't gonna get my PC but that exact day mom brought me one and it was when happiness peaked in my life.

The Magic of Patience: it Pays off in Adulthood

Life never goes as you expect it to be in adulthood when you have responsibilities, expectations and all.

You work everyday and expect it will be better than the last one. Putting efforts into things but results doesn't appear. It's how things work in practical life and only way you can thrive is when you've this Patience.

In last couple of years I've seen many ups and down of life, the worst days and even worse than those worst days but have been patient throughout this whole time and eventually by efforts it started to become normal and better.

Now everything I do, I don't expect instant results but believe in doing it consistently with Patience is going to be worth it.


wrapping up...

Childhood Days have given us so many things from memories to lessons helping in adulthood life and lucky to witness that era. Reliving the same days but different situation, different time with same patience.

I hope you found this interesting and let me know if you've something to say in comment.

Fin.

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Being patience, we don't really understand it before because we are still a child but, even in our childhood years we already experience being patience without us knowing us. And when we reach adulthood, that's when will we truly understand it. Anyways, I never experience getting things that I want ro my Mom. She will decide of what to give me so I never really requested anything. Even if I beg I know can never have it, so I just never ask.

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even in our childhood years we already experience being patience without us knowing us. And when we reach adulthood, that's when will we truly understand it

True, you're right.

Anyways, I never experience getting things that I want ro my Mom. She will decide of what to give me so I never really requested anything.

Oh, I feel lucky to have mom beside me like she's the only one I care and I feel sad for you but I'm sure you can get anything you wish by yourself that feeling is just so Good!

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You are, that's why, love your mom and be grateful to her always. ( ◜‿◝ )♡

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As a child, I was always impatient..infact, I carried it up to adulthood but having being exposed to what life is all about, I started working into being Patience in my life because it's a great virtue to posses. Your mum did great for you and I am happy it's affecting your adult life positively.

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Lot of peeps I know used to be impatience but I had this patience since beginning days.. really helping much in life.. mostly it's all about being patience. Glad my mom played her role without noticing that details back then.

Thank you!

!PIZZA !LUV

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My mom also used to said me get good grades than I'll give you this as a gift, even i remember on my result day i always get a grand prize i mean a toy which i want.

Those Days were awesome 💫

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Ahan, sounds like every paki mom be like!

Haha, we're definitely lucky to have such mother and born in that era.

!PIZZA !LUV

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Wow this was a nice write up bro, the importance of patience should never be overlooked or underestimated, you have really done well by taking up the lessons of patience from childhood into adulthood and I am glad to see it working for you, well done

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Glad you liked it..yea, it's really is important. thank you bro for your kind words!

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My impatient attitude was legendary when I was a kid because I always want to get things very early, I was disciplined a lot because of this attitude before I eventually learnt my lesson.

Patience is a good virtue.

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Haha, wanting everything early was always a thing.. gone are the childhood days.

Glad you learnt lesson and are disciplined.. indeed it is.

Thank you for stopping by. !PIZZA !LUV

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You are so right on this aspect of the expectation in adulthood.
It is difficult to learn how to become patient. Ultimately it is a good character to develop
Thank you

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Glad you do agree with my idea.

Thank you for stopping by. !PIZZA !LUV

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I'll get you one when it's right time but first you gotta study well and get good marks

My mom used to say it also.

I think in every case we need patience and after a certain time we get the result of it. So you have learned a good lesson from your childhood.
!PIZZA
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Haha, is it Asians mom thing? 🤣

I think in every case we need patience and after a certain time we get the result of it. So you have learned a good lesson from your childhood.

Indeed, truly agree on this.. everything has a right time and we get it wen we work for it with patience. Thanks bro. !PIZZA !LUV

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