Not a Misogynist 🀣

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My fingers are cracking with pain(being a responsible girl) but still I miss funny bones hehe. Remaining close to the girl gang I scanned the depth of these relationships. But finally I am making a hypothesis "Boys are better friends than girls" . Let me prove it by myself. @tehseen-akhtar is my fellow in this experiment; ( Le her standing on 1KM distance)

  • Hypothesis , sampling and Biostatistics ;

For experimentation we will take a few boys as an experimented group (they are paid by some likes and fellows lol)and afew as a control group( which are loyal and unbiased during the whole procedure, maybe they are immature). Same formula is applied to the sampling of girls ( one girl represents the whole society πŸ™‚) Natural conditions are maintained ( as we are poor to afford the lab work ) . For the statistics and mathematical calculations I would like to thank @dlmmqb ( as he is only sharp in math 😁).

  • Behavioral analysis ;

  • They are not backbiters;

Through examination and personal experiences we concluded that XY has no interest in discussing you behind your back because it's against masculinity to do this. Also they don't have time left after their whole day wasted in outings and racing.

  • They don't share secrets;

It's in their genes that they wouldn't spread your secrets like the fire in the jungle ( that's why they have thin bellies 😁as they digest the each secret either true or fale story of yours )

  • They have solution with sources;

They wouldn't dissatisfy you with their wisdom, no matter how inexpensive their looks are, they still have bigger hands to solve the issue. They don't hesitate by saying what the world will say if I take side of this girl ( Kabir sigh proved it lol).

  • They don't have arrogance issues;

They wouldn't keep you on the waiting list in case of a response. If a task is in their hands they will make it done and if not they have simply no option. The XX have attitude issues that's why they postpone the help by saying ; why me at time of urgency, they start recalling the past just not to help the others.

  • No sugar coating;

If they have to ask you for work they wouldn't mind asking it in the first place while girls take a lot of time raising fake compliments. They all prove the words of Sidhu mossewala righteous lol.

  • No paragraphs still they will stand for you;

They don't waste energy in formulating paragraphs to show how much they care yet they show up where they consider it important. I have wasted my paragraphs on girls to elaborate my friendship, yet I have no one in mind who would assist me in difficult situations.

  • They cut the things easily;

They don't think of coming back when things are over from both sides. Girls keep on popping to justify their actions. Regretting the decision and blaming the situation, parents and society . Boys only have to say " i deserve better than you xd)

  • They have headache yet wouldn't proclaim it;

They don't desire sympathy, they have goals to achieve in mind but wouldn't show their card to gain any sort of attention. Their status and stories are filled with fun and hangouts no matter if they have attended each party with empty pockets and brotherhood.

  • Pre -post thoughts;

Well these notes are from personal experiences, I was ditched by a girl gang a lot, so I attached myself to other genders( I mean boys here lol) just in case of experience. I had never hurt feelings from anyone because things were controlled wisely. I am not a misogynist but these are some straight points which would be relatable. Well if you had romantic terms I know you would throw vas on me but I have only shown their reality from my birds eye.

Those who slided in my DM to ask about my health. I am fine, busy schedules kept me away from Hive. I have missed meetings and new year celebrations but honestly my mind isn't in the state to accept this change of calendar. I don't know why my feets are hurting to accept the reality that the past is in the past.
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I am sorry to hear that you have been ditched by girls gang lately. Perhaps, it's all about our experiences that design our perceptions and this realities. I have found equally supportive friends among ladies as among guys. I think more ladies than guys.

Life has taught me that people are people. It doesn't make a difference whether the person is a man or a woman. They can be of any type. Again experiences matter.

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Well, Sis I support this logic of yours, across this world we are treated equally if we have aspired mindset. Gliding directly from student life and watching ladies envious and gossip I feel more comfortable with my friends who are boys while discussing life. !LUV

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Well, again, experiences matter. I got best female friends during my academic years from school, college and university

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Ditched by Girl Gang.... Aesa bhi hota hai Kiya πŸ’€

Seems like misogyny is in my blood after reading those points !LOL

Very much relateable, people secrets will remain secret....to They have headache yet wouldn't proclaim it πŸ˜†

Also i never slides into girls DM so ain't this all makes me misogyny? πŸ€•

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Well you deserve the credit as I saw this word firstly on your Instagram profile haha, I hesitated from you too 😁 about ladies gang hmm who arranges the theme parties or kitty parties there are hands between them nah. You are a misogynist haha you already knew much about this allegation or truth. !LUV

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Oh, didn't know I had a insta profile and bio there πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

ladies gang hmm who arranges the theme parties or kitty parties there are hands between them nah

Hqhqhqhq Noice..

much about this allegation or truth

Simp for her, misogyny for others πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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I didn't wrote about Andrew till now but this gave me Top G vibes. @felixxx, I believe you will enjoy reading this. :)

@ayesha-malik based on how people say andrew as misogynist, I would mind if people say me one. People usually don't back what they say and I see you gave points to prove I am not misogynist.

Did u know only 95% girls are good in maths while only 6% are bad in maths. This message don't add upto 100% cause it's written by my female assistant. :)
Now call me misogynist instead cause it's the new COOL. !LOLZ

!1UP 40


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Aye captain πŸ˜ƒ will surely look forward toward your post hehe. Haha you got it right, I knew nothing about him till I researched haha. I would say nothing about his actions as I consider all this as fun. And if you dare to use your freedom of speech on this be aware 🀫 !LOL

Mathematics hmm I have included you as I found you genius among others, 1 and 1 make ( a happy family lol) and 11 for others Xd. Thanks for the time. !LUV

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I am glad to see you, my dear Shireen, πŸ₯°πŸ₯°.
I will agree with your points because I have also faced most of the conditions like you.
Indeed, girls are not good at friendship, especially long-lasting friendships 🀭.
But I want to add something to it that the girls who are good friends are also forced to leave friendships on the door of college🀭🀭.
(Bechari)
But the heart can leave all the recollections(although good or bad).
I can understand your flat feelings of you and how you are disturbed to leave that comfort zone about which we never consider any goodnessπŸ˜„.
But nowadays I am feeling differently, I am feeling bored and lonely without the small group which was a source of funπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒ.
I want to see those faces which are now far away by a little distance πŸ€”.
I think that was the life of freedom that we left behind usπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™.

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Well Tehseen! Things change when the field of life is changed example, when we alter our ways we have new check posts and new faces to look at. But I still remember I have blessing of multiple friend's who neither changed nor allowed me to alter anything in my personality and you are one of them. Khaula, Maria Jabeen, and you accompanied me from school, Isra, Ayesha, Sadia from collage and now you all along with Somia and Sumbal from University...... Allahamdulliah.

About the memories their will scratch you dear as far as you remain connected with them, don't let them to eat you..... Bring the change my !LUV .

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Thank you my dearπŸ₯°πŸ₯°.I am lucky about a friend like you in my life.
Yeah, it is right that we move on in life and interact with different people.
But there are some, we don't want to leave at any cost, or if they are not with us, we always remain with them with our hearts and brain.
Nothing is more important than the people whom we love.
No matter where we go and what we get in our lives. But no one can take the place of some precious friends.
I feel really sad to lose student life and friends like youπŸ₯°πŸ₯°.
Love youπŸ€—πŸ€—.

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"Boys are better friends than girls" .

I agree. 99.9% of my friends are guys. I barely have girlfriends. My relationship with my girlfriends never last 😩

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Hahaha so someone is there who thinks and treats people like me. Hehe.

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I have to agree with @amberkashif here. I have close friends, good friends of both genders, off-chain and on Hive. If you find the right female friends then the empathy and emotional support that you can share with each other can be special indeed (usually far more profound than that which can be derived from relationships with guys - I say usually so as not to exclude the possibility of this kind of friendship with a man). Find the wrong women though and you endure fickleness, backstabbing bitchiness, and honestly too much drama for a person to handle (cue hormones!!! !LOLZ) ...

Honestly, if a group of girls has excluded you, it is their loss... and think about it... you refer to boys and girls... not men and women... I think there is a lot hidden in that statement. With life experience comes maturity... girls become women, boys become men. It is only once we drive through the drama of youth and experience a bit more of what life has to throw at us, that we can truly appreciate what it means to be a good friend and to appreciate real friendship. Before that, too much is subject to the whims of youthful exuberance and peer pressure.

I hope you find your tribe in life my dear Shireen. I miss you when you are not around.

Always here for you πŸ’—

!LUV !ALIVE

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and think about it... you refer to boys and girls... not men and women...

It is certainly noticeable. Maturity makes us understand different paradigms of life.

I have always got friends when I was a teenager girl at school, college or young girl at university. Later in the online world also I found amazing female friends. However, there is something I would add in the light of my experience. The drama is always around us. I don't let dramatic people be so much influencing on my life. I just maintain a distance with them if it is really necessary to have a relation. Otherwise, I simply shun them. What they say is of no importance for me. At the end, what I am left with is a small group of loyal and faithful friends. You are one of them my dear sister, @samsmith1971 and so the other one is @ayesha-malik ❀️❀️

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aw... the feeling is mutual, my Amber πŸ’— !LUV

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Behind the story, I was challenged that girls never appreciate the right attributes of guys so I accepted this. As far as my experience is concerned, I still, have a best friend who is female. Even you Sam, Amber, and Dreemsteem remained close to me. So I can say girls are not good friends. It was fun to read the feedback. I have visited another insight.

if a group of girls has excluded you, it is their loss..

Well, it's right, I can't deny this. Some souls are made to survive alone. Ladies are dramatic even though I do a lot of drama in loneliness !LOL. Lots of love Sam. I am happy to see you always on my posts, thinking why I don't do the same πŸ˜’ things need to change. Love you πŸ’•

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Hahahahah so finally someone is praising us tooπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Well hearing first time that a girl ditched by girl…………ohhhh may be may be LGBTQ πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Secondly don’t share your secrets with me as i am not thin belly boy I alhamdolillah possess a dome one

Great to see u back with words ❀️

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Hahaha you have 2 souls and the one which you show isn't right so behind that dome there is a flat guy who knows and values loyalty and friendship.

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