Phone photography #4 Bonding strengthens a relationship

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Greetings to all Hiveans!! Hope all are happy and feeling good in the feel good community.

Treasure your loved ones

For the phone photography #4, I was thinking what to post as its an open topic. Suddenly, I remembered my aged parents and grown up boys(adolescent). Do you know there are few similarities in both these age group. Both of them are stubborn and needs extra care, a slip of tongue is enough to cause a major attack.

I am specifically pointing out the boys only, because the girls to a certain extent can understand what a parent is trying to communicate.

Even with our aged parents you can never question when, where and why? Because for them we are still not grown up. So when you question them, they will be the one who is most hurt. Just give them some space. Because they are more or less like children.

Being far away from parents, most couples come in with gift suring their rare visits. More than the gifts, they value your presence. Little do we realize this. It becomes much evident from their innocent smile.

Some kind words, or keep them close to you, listen to their talks, take their opinions, show them how important they are to you because they have completed one full journey titled "life" nurturing us. Let me tell you one more thing, the beauty of life is incomplete in their absence.

On the contrary, when you look at our adolescent boys, they do not have patience to listen to us. The question by parents as to why, when and where is rarely answered by these boys.
It is told that, once the boy reaches his father's height he should be treated more like a friend rather than a son. So that it becomes easy to communicate and they become more approachable.

Never mind giving him a hug, a kiss, a comfort shoulder whenever he is in need of. So that he remembers you whenever, he is away from you. Most of all a family time is very important to keep the relationship growing.

This is my entry for the phone photography contest by @untilwelearn. Here is the link
The photos placed in here of my parents and son are my own, taken 2 to 3 years before at different intervals of time period.



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I largely agree with most of what you said about elders, but what you said about young adults, especially boys, is completely wrong. I obviously don't know about your experiences, but I and most of my friends are less stubborn and more patient than our sisters. :P
@chinay04 @inuke @bhattg @pravesh0 If you have time, please share your thoughts on this. :)

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Sorry I was talking of only present generation ie., after the advancement of technology. That too not everyone, but few of them. Stubborn in a sense to certain things in particular. Meaning they have some preference which we have to adhere to. And sometimes they turn out to be right while sometimes not.

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Arre main toh aise hi Masti kar raha tha.. I thought you would understand by seeing that emoji😄
I know bahot adults hote hain aise jaisa aapne kaha par usme sirf ladke nahi ladkiyan bhi hoti hain ye bas ek baat hai..
😊🙏🏼

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Hmmm.....tho yeh bhi masti hai bhai 👆

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I will just say each of the individuals is unique and you can't categorize a specific gender or age for things like stubbornness. (Mujhe iss pange main padhna hi nhi hai 😁)

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Wah, Safe playing!😅
Waise baat toh sahi hai aur main bhi yahi maanta hoon par yahan young adults ko categorize kiya ja raha tha jiske khilaaf ekjut-ta ka nara lagana bhi toh jaruri tha.😆😁

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Sbke apne apne opinion hai bhai

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Haan Bhai bilkul sabke opinion hote hain aur main toh bas aise hi Masti kar raha tha. Mujhe pata hai Kai young adults hote bhi hai waise..👍🏼

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Yes brother opinion differs, sabkae liyae. That was my personal experience in school with high school boys.

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