Habits I don't condone.

I find so many behaviours irritating but I try not to overreact because I am not perfect as well, no human is perfect but we can all be better people if we want to. It's a lie if we think we are perfect because the way we find some people's behaviours annoying is the same way some people also find some of our behaviours annoying.

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It is a long list for me but I will try to keep it as short as possible and the first of them is people who don't keep to time. I am very conscious of time and will always tell you if a particular time chosen for some thing won't be convenient for me, I will tell you if I will be late so that I don't keep you waiting but it's the other way around for some people. They know they won't meet up and would rather delay you instead of telling the truth.

I have a friend who is fond of this behaviour and that's what causes our misunderstanding. Whenever she tells you that she will be at your place in 5 minutes, just add zero to the minute she tells you. She still did the same thing a few weeks ago and I told her that if our relationship ever ended, it would be because of her inability to keep to time but she always sees it as a bluff.

My family know me for being time-conscious and we I tell you it is midnight, it will definitely be that time. I have many times waited at the bus stop and it pisses me off because while waiting, you will have to endure different insults.

Another behaviour I don't like is people dragging their feet while walking. I didn't see this as a big deal when I was a kid and mom always threw slippers or anything beside her just to make me stop dragging my feet on the floor but as I grew, I realised it was truly annoying. I find it annoying and funny because it's not like they tied a stone to the person's leg that made it difficult for the person to walk.
This happens a lot but who am I to correct people not to walk that way, I just contain my anger and pray such a person leaves my premises immediately.

The last I will share are people who join conversations that they are not invited to and they still go on spitting rubbish in the end.

When Mohbad died, I went to make my hair at a salon.w While I and the hairdresser were talking about the incident. A woman who was hawking came to advertise her goods and the next thing she did was to start interfering in the conversation. It would have been okay if she was even making sense but it was the other way around.

She started with Mohbad's wife being the Late MKO Abiola's daughter and the thing that shocked me that I almost fell off the chair I was sitting on. She went on spitting rubbish and we did her a favour by not telling her she was saying rubbish.

I know people tell them it's a bad habit but they are just addicted and some just choose not to change but these things really get on my nerves.