Is the customer always right?

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I believe we have all heard the statement; "a customer is always right" but is this correct? I believe the reason why this statement is popular is that a seller or a person providing a service wouldn't want to do anything that will make a potential customer avoid doing business with them, even if it means agreeing with whatever wrongdoing a customer does.

But in my opinion, I see that statement as complete bullsh*t. It has resulted in situations where a customer becomes too rude because they know that they will still be treated like royalty by the business owner who needs their money. One thing I have realized is that this statement mostly applies to rich customers; the business owner can't afford to get on the bad side of their rich clients, so they take whatever insult and bad attitude that is portrayed by some of these rich folks.

I have seen something like this happening in a bank, I didn't exactly know what happened but I remember a man raining insults on one of the bank cashiers and the poor lady was just sitting quietly at her counter without being able to say anything. Other customers tried defending her but the man kept verbally abusing her and at one point, the bank manager came out and quickly took the man into his office. Minutes later, both of them came out smiling.

After the man left, I heard that he was a very big client of the bank and that's why nobody could do anything to him while he was on a rampage. I'm pretty sure that if a person who isn't rich tries such in the bank, they will be immediately whisked off the bank premises by security but since it's someone wealthy and having huge money deposits with the bank, they let it slide.


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Have I experienced such a situation?

Yes, I have. This happened in 2017 when I was working in a computer center. A new customer came one day and told me that he wanted to type some documents and I told him that the price was N100 per page and he told me to just start typing immediately because he is in a hurry. So I started the work immediately, with him sitting beside me while I type.

He kept complaining that my typing speed is very slow (which is a lie because my typing speed is well above average) and he also complained about a lot of other things. His constant complaining kept me on edge and I was angry while typing the document. I finally finished the whole document while still very angry and I counted the pages, it was 5 pages long and I told him that his bill is N500.

He immediately went into an episode and started saying his bill is N350 (N70 per page). I suppressed the urge to pour my already boiling anger on him and I calmly reminded him that I mentioned the price of a page before I started typing and he agreed to it, but he called me a liar and insisted that I never told him about the price before I started typing. I kept quiet. I then told him that I'm not going to give him the document if he doesn't make the full payment, and that was when he went crazy.

He started shouting and raining insults on me but I remained calm and told him that if he gets tired of shouting, then he should leave my store. My boss worked in the Federal inland revenue office that is close to the computer center and he came after someone made a call to him that a man is causing problems. My boss arrived and after hearing what the man has to say and also my side of the story, he told me to just give the man the document and accept the money from him, but I REFUSED!

I wanted to teach the man a lesson that he can't just walk over a person even when he knows he is wrong. I told my boss to go back to his work and I will handle the rest. My boss trusts me, so he left the whole issue and went back to work, which is exactly what I wanted. I turned back to the man and told him to do his worst. He couldn't say anything at that point and kept looking at me.

I then told him that I won't even accept the full payment from him even if he decides to pay it and I just want him to get out of the premises or he is welcome to keep me company as I attend to other customers. I ignored him and started working on something else, and he shamefully left after a while. He went to another store but everyone who saw what happened rejected him, and I smiled at the way things turned out.

Rounding off

In a normal situation, I would have agreed with him and accepted the money he proposed but his attitude made me refuse and insisted he paid fully. Some customers have actually pleaded with me that they didn't hear when I mention the price initially and I accepted the money they offered but this particular person was very rude and tried to use his power as a customer to force me to agree.

My boss almost saved him but he didn't realize I'm a very stubborn person and wouldn't let it go. I hate it when a customer does something wrong but still tries to pretend that they are right, I won't hesitate to put that person in their place even if it means losing them as a customer. We shouldn't trade our self-esteem and put ourselves on the ground for someone else to step on, all because they are doing business with us, we deserve better than that.

Thanks for reading

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Hats off to you, bro. I really loved what you did to that customer. He deserved this.
Some customers think of themselves as masters as if you are their owned slaves and they have every right to treat you the way they want but I am really happy to know you taught him a lesson

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Thank you for your kind words. The customer was very rude that day and I just had to put him in his place, we should always try to be respectful to everyone we meet

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Actually our treatment to others is the mirror of our own character.

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That's just the truth, our character is seen in the way we treat others

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Hi @kushyzee have you heard of dreemport?

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Yes I have 😊

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That's good to know, but I haven't seen your post in the Dreemport.....🤔

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I know about it but I don't use it

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The customer got what deserved and I love how you handled the situation plus others who turned the man down. He would realise his mistake. Something you have agreed on before and you changed your mouth. He wanted to use his power on you but didn´t know sometimes, employers or employees need to make people like him know that what they are doing is wrong. He acted unwisely that day. This is a film I love to watch oo 😂

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🤣 everybody around that workplace watched enough drama that day. They thought it will end with the customer winning but they didn't know that I have coconut head. I guess the way I handled it made other computer centers to reject the man, before they experience the same thing I did

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Hahaha. I love the way you took the matter and next time, he would think twice before trying such anywhere.

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It is a total bullshit of cause this customers know actually what they are doing they just use that statement to see an opportunity to misbehave. Thanks for sharing.

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That's what most of them do when they realize that the business owner will still treat them like royalty, they misuse that opportunity. Thanks for reading

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You stood your ground and that was amazing, I love that you never backed down even when your boss arrived, "customer is always right" has put many in jeopardy as they try to fulfill customers' wishes and ruin themselves while at it.

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Exactly, they end up jeopardizing themselves because they want to satisfy one customer, and the customer knowing that will want to use it to their advantage

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Hm..true..thanks for standing up, some people need to be taught a lesson.

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Well if I try to get into your shoes I would be behaving as same stubbornly. And you have done a professional and ethically right job, the customer must have to behave in the right way apart from paying the right amount. Your boss adopted the attitude to save the customer ship but it's not always right to support the ethically wrong thigh just for sake of money. Thanks for dropping such amazing work in Dreemport.

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Sometimes it's better to just follow your instincts and confront a wrong customer instead of trying to agree with them (just like my boss did). Some customers are very rude and deserve to be called to order

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Good for you for standing up for your own value. Nobody should be allowed to manipulate and walk all over another, simply because they are wielding a fist full of cash. Unfortunately, you see this kind of behaviour time and time again. People who waltz in, use money as leverage because they know how much it is needed, especially in small businesses. And the big businesses can't afford the bad PR from a high-profile client either. So people constantly cave to the BS of others. It's a shame, really. So, it is refreshing when you come across someone who respectfully stands their ground. Who demands mutual respect and common decency as a minimum for engagement, be it personal or business. You may have lost a customer, but I am sure you gained and retained a whole lot more from people having witnessed the situation and simply from leading the way with a good sense of values. !PIZZA

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I hate it when a customer lord it over a business owner simply because they are the one with the money, it gives them too much power and they become too rude. I will always put such customer in their place whenever I come across one.

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