RE: Impact On Others .:. Why it's easier to help a stranger than to your family?

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Wow, this was a powerful vlog....yes, you are right. Everything starts with each of us as we work within ourselves & keep expanding our awareness & knowledge through life experiences or shadow work...

It really is interesting how easy it is to inspire & help others, but it can be a challenge to do so with the ones closest to us. While we have the desire to help & strive to do what we can, it won't work if that person isn't willing to meet half way. In some instances, such as your father, they tend to show their vulnerability when times are tough only...

I remember when I came home from a 2 week hospital stay a couple of years ago. I had come back from fighting death (quite literally) & when I was home for the first month or so, everything seemed so surreal. The petty things I would worry about didn't matter anymore & neither did trivial conversations. Being in a state of clarity, that only this kind of experience can provide, I felt changed from inside out....but as time passed, I started grounding myself again, getting healthier & integrating with the world we live in...it was an interesting transition.... even though I was back to "reality", I still keep those moments of clarity that, to this day, hit me from time to time...

It is different for everyone, but I think as long as we keep working on ourselves, show compassion & do our best to help those who want to be helped (or perhaps even inspiring others that we will never know about), it will help us be better versions as well...

Speaking for myself, you inspire me every day & I have learned a lot from you... on Hive & off...that is why I am blessed to have you as my best friend. (No bias here ;)) I have also seen how you inspire others as well. Just worth mentioning that!

Thanks for an awesome vlog for the books, Zoltan, & have a wonderful weekend!💚🙏🏻🤗



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In some instances, such as your father, they tend to show their vulnerability when times are tough only...

...and that's sadnesses me a lot... But, as you said, if we can't meet half way, it's impossible to help, change, or whatever else... like everything else in life, it's a two-way street...

It's good to keep in mind things like your experience when you came from a hospital... to remind yourself to not take things for granted...

Thank you for your kind words... It nice to have friends all around the world... You can always find someone to get you fired up, inspired, or motivated! :)

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