My magic words or affective words, which always give me more benefits than bad times; although sometimes I am called ridiculous, exploited, hypocritical, wanting to fit in where no one knows me, and even as a lesbian. Yes! sometimes for being nice; some have called me a lesbian. Or failing that, if I am nice to someone's boyfriend or husband; immediately an electric fence is set up.
Before this type of attitude, I am surprised! and I feel a little sad, first because I only treat others, as I like to be treated. And I consider that my best characteristic is: To be intelligent, disciplined and kind, I do not define myself as a beautiful and harassing woman! Nothing happens with my self-esteem, as my sister told me one day; I just don't put my personality in front of the physical beauty that others can see in me.
**¡Mi hermana hermosa! **
Ella dice: A mí !!, que me recuerden por hermosa y radiante!. Ella nació bella y Listo! .Ama la fotografía y la actuación. .La Adoro…Aunque ella crea que tengo un problema de autoestima por decir, que mi mejor característica no es ser bella, y siempre ande con ese tema.jajaja..
She says: Me !!, that they remember me for beautiful and radiant !. She was born beautiful and Ready! .Loves photography and acting. .I adore her ... Even though she thinks I have a self-esteem problem to say, that my best characteristic is not being beautiful, and I always walk with that topic. jajaja.
Secondly, it saddens me that people prefer to be treated badly. Just because others are nice to you doesn't mean there is a sexual attraction. I would never assume something like that, I would feel at the extreme of Ridicule thinking something like that! Believe; that someone is nice to me, because he automatically liked me and feels a sexual attraction towards me! It seems a lot to me ...
Others think that your affective or magic words is because you want to take advantage of yourself, using phrases like: what does this one who has been talking like this wants? Then they want to be treated in a despotic way! For me, it is a difficult attitude to understand.
Likewise, I am not afraid or ashamed to be nice to you. Even if you want and prefer to be treated with distance to you, and all of yours !. Like preventing an outburst.!!
El usar palabras sinceras y cariñosas no es sinónimo de debilidad, por el contrario entre más te amas, te aceptas y te reconoces; te das cuenta con qué facilidad puedes ver en otros sus cualidades.
Using sincere and loving words is not synonymous with weakness, on the contrary, the more you love, accept and recognize yourself; you realize how easily you can see their qualities in others.
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Use a loving language, accompanied by expressions such as "take care of yourself", "you look very good" "count on me" "I missed you", "you are important to me", "I love how you are", "you have a beautiful smile", " I want to spend some time with you "," I learn a lot from you "," that color of blouse suits you very well "," you look beautiful today "... Anyway! I could mention so many expressions that I can often say, especially since I observe a change of Light to whom I tell them.
Me! I do not see malice in my words, or anything improper. Maybe it will be the same then, just shut up even though I see you prettier today? Even if I see you more handsome today? .... I think that those loving words express strength for you and me, because they keep us healthy, and help us spread health in the most hurt hearts.
Sometimes a person comes to an office with a fever, headache, back pain, or any other symptoms; and the doctor listens to it, pays attention to it, reviews it; half cares about that patient; runs his hand down his back; gives recommendations, scolds family members for not paying attention to the patient… .Then! the pain in that patient is passing.
Somatizar los problemas! Dejar que cada situación molesta nos afecte tanto, hasta que nuestro cuerpo quede maltratado, No es justo!...Somos hijos de Dios y tenemos la facultad de ayudar a otros dando fortaleza en nuestro andar.
Somatize the problems! Letting each annoying situation affect us so much, until our body is mistreated, It is not fair! ... We are children of God and we have the ability to help others by giving strength in our walk.
Obviously, when I observe that a person does not like my way of being, I fulfill the task of limiting myself; and I'm not going to try to drag you into my cloying world !! .. I understand that we don't vibrate in the same tune, and you just don't need me to tell you anything, because you're perfectly fine! Respect is also a way of expressing love for others
Sé positivo con tus palabras y con tu ejemplo, puedes llegar a motivar a otros a tomar el camino que desean pero que no se atreven por temor.
Be positive with your words and with your example, you can motivate others to take the path they want but do not dare out of fear.
Less critical and more affectionate. The famous constructive criticism, For me constructive criticism does not exist. Criticism is critical. We are so saturated with that phrase, and we believe divine justice on earth, made human, capable of questioning everything. It is not necessary to ridicule, to use severe words towards another Being, to make him see that he is wrong. Sometimes we only feel ashamed that they link us with the ignorance of the other, and hence our offensive words to correct.
Conoce y acepta tus límites, yo conozco los míos y por eso, puedo ceder, y darme el permiso de ser amable de corazón. Como dicen por ahí: del dicho al hecho hay un trecho enorme!!!
Know and accept your limits, I know mine and because of that, I can give in, and give myself the permission to be kind of heart. As they say out there: from said to fact there is a huge stretch.
With words of love and affection you can inject strength, motivation, courage, courage and determination into people. Don't be afraid to be nice, smile, hug and tell each person how positive is in them
Spread and Accept the gifts of love that come to you, through affective words.