Letter to ME ~ Me In 2019 ~ challenge yourself to advice the new year
Dear Britt in the future and dear self,
I hope that time will been kind to you, and that you will remain in good health.
It’s on the first day of Christmas 2019 that I am writing you this letter : to ME.
It’s almost time to say goodbye to one year and welcome the even numbered new year 2020. While you may not always notice and acknowledge it, change is the only constant factor in life. A New Year is the annual reminder that time has come to move on and prepare ourselves for the changes coming. And on the verge of a new beginning I tell you with no doubt that the whole world and each of your friends lives have changed immensely, the past year and the year ahead. I know you will shed a tear on the 31st when all the family is there cherish that moment.
Today I want to ponder and write you about how to powerfully step into the new year so that you are not surprised or shocked by the changes it will bring along. Over the years I have realized that in the protected and safe european lifestyle you might very well let the years slide by without much attention; but there will always be this annual letter to make you aware that time has moved on, and dwelling over the past or living in the past is a waste. Always look ahead. The future is in front of you. The future is worthy.
Britt your first step before starting the new year in a week from now is to finish what you are doing now, try to wrap the year up. Clean phones, cabinets and throw away clothes, you have more than enough. Make peace with the passing year. I know it was very difficult loosing two family members, but they will be your guiding lights in all the years to come. Try to keep your promise to them , and honour the promises made.
For the month of January I wish that you start and make peace with where you are now, with work, family and friends. Start fresh and set goals for the months to come. Also please celebrate your achievements both big and small, and laugh about your failures and missed opportunities. This year you have been to hard on yourself, you have grown! Apologize if needed and always stay focussed. Give up any blame, regret or shame gathered this year. There will be new to collect in 2021. Thank and express gratitude to everyone who has made a difference in your life. Buy a new calendar, and family planner and identify milestones for the next 1 year for the ambitions which you discovered in this year 2019. Don’t let this step scare you. You don’t have to decide milestones for each one of your ambitions – you can choose a few which are the most important to you. Also don’t worry or bother about “how” you will reach your milestones as you have the whole year to think about that.
I can't predict what life will be like for the next 365 days untill the new ME letter, but it's likely that some of the things you may be facing. Like having your own family and up growing kids, will be things you went through with your own parents. Know that the person who has given it to you cares about you a great deal, and is concerned for your well-being.
There might be new challenges, with some sort of pandemic, if that happens in the new 2020 try to obey rules, don’t be a sheep in a Hurd. Stay away from situations that can hurt you and also this will pass.
The fact that this new situation will hurt the world this might eventually be the new standard and the new way of living be adaptive and adjusting. A role model for the kids, and always keep faith!
Please keep an open mind and listen carefully to what dad and mum have to say. Accept that you may need to trust in their judgment over your own ( again next year ) They may ask you to stop doing something that you feel you are still able to do, or ask you to,be the care giver because this year their health will be deteriorating. Or they may ask you to accept help that you don't feel you need. I have to warn you health wise this even year called 2020 will be a challenge. Take very good care of yourself. Set an example for the kids.
As for you blogging fun on Hive try to see if questions like : What are your deepest motivations? What have you always wanted to do? What are you really passionate about? Is there something worth devoting your life to?
What drives your actions and decisions? What are the values you hold most dearly? What makes you really happy or angry? And Who are your biggest inspirations in life, and who are the people you can’t stand? And why? Can be blogs with 2000 words. Just to expan the writing a little.
For travels in 2020, plan a few trips and always buy an cancellation insurance in case a trips cannot take place for reasons beyond your control, such as natural disasters or pandemics.
The 2020 Hive goal will be 3000 followers and 20.000 hive, a discord that flourishes and a win in the engagement league, how is that for some extra goals, you know ME always trying to stretch the achievements.
I hope that you'll remember that you wanted to learn from your experiences both online as in real life and that till that end, you wrote this letter to help remind you of those times, and to accept the advice and assistance of the people who care, and most important know that I think you are wonderful and that your honesty is the best policy.
As much for them, as for yourself.
Britt
Loving wife, mum of 4,
lover of life and passionate hiver
Oh and Britt don’t forget it is very important to also include and keep time for recreation, fun, sports, and other forms of entertainment, your girls club, that smile of having fun needs to be on your face every day.
This is Thanks to @livinguktaiwan for creating this thoughtful challenge and tagging me.
Here is the original blog :
https://peakd.com/hive-124452/@livinguktaiwan/a-letter-to-me-in-2019
I am glad my letter to me in 2020 written a year ago is ready, this is one of the hardest ones and I hope it can be an annual one. I have been tagged a few times , I will tag @jaynie @bigtom13 @galenkp @jlufer @wesphilbin @eugelys @thekittygirl, @xcountytravelers @justclickindiva @jizzyjoe @shrazi @librepensadora @adalger @jamerussell @sacra97 @jerrytsuseer @kerrislravenhill @ambarvegas and @medro-martin
Write a letter to yourself in 2019 and use the tag #mein2019.
Please enter anyone else who wants to join in!
Yes its difficult but certainly fun.
SPANISH TRANSLATION :
Querida Britt en el futuro y yo mismo,
Espero que el tiempo haya sido bueno para usted y que se mantenga en buen estado de salud.
Es el primer día de Navidad de 2019 que te escribo esta carta. Es casi el momento de decir adiós a un año y dar la bienvenida al nuevo año par 2020. Si bien es posible que no siempre lo notes y reconozcas, el cambio es el único factor constante en la vida. Un Año Nuevo es el recordatorio anual de que ha llegado el momento de seguir adelante y prepararnos para los cambios que se avecinan. Y al borde de un nuevo comienzo les digo sin duda que el mundo entero y cada una de sus vidas individuales han cambiado enormemente, el año pasado y el año que viene.
Hoy quiero reflexionar y escribirle sobre cómo dar un paso poderoso hacia el nuevo año para que no se sorprenda o se sorprenda por los cambios que traerá consigo. A lo largo de los años me he dado cuenta de que en el estilo de vida europeo protegido y seguro es muy posible que dejes pasar los años sin mucha atención; pero siempre habrá esta carta anual para hacerte consciente de que el tiempo ha pasado y que vivir en el pasado o vivir en el pasado es una pérdida. Siempre mira hacia adelante. El futuro está frente a ti.
Britt, su primer paso antes de comenzar el año nuevo en una semana a partir de ahora es terminar lo que está haciendo ahora, trate de terminar el año. Haz las paces con el año que pasa. Sé que fue difícil perder a dos miembros de la familia, pero serán sus guías en los años venideros. Trate de mantener su promesa a ellos y honre las promesas hechas.
Para el mes de enero deseo que empiece y haga las paces con el lugar donde se encuentra ahora, con el trabajo, la familia y los amigos. Empiece de nuevo y establezca metas para los próximos meses. Además, celebre sus logros, tanto grandes como pequeños, y ríase de sus fracasos y oportunidades perdidas. Este año has sido demasiado duro contigo mismo, ¡has crecido! Discúlpate si es necesario y mantente siempre concentrado. Renuncie a cualquier culpa, arrepentimiento o vergüenza acumulada este año. Habrá novedades para coleccionar en 2021. Agradezca y exprese su gratitud a todos los que han hecho una diferencia en su vida. Compre un nuevo calendario y un planificador familiar e identifique los hitos para el próximo año para las ambiciones que descubrió en este año 2019. No deje que este paso lo asuste. No tiene que decidir los hitos para cada una de sus ambiciones; puede elegir algunos que sean los más importantes para usted. Además, no se preocupe ni se preocupe por "cómo" alcanzará sus hitos, ya que tiene todo el año para pensar en eso.
No puedo predecir cómo será la vida durante los próximos 365 días hasta la nueva carta ME, pero es probable que algunas de las cosas a las que se enfrente. Como tener su propia familia e hijos en crecimiento, serán cosas por las que pasó con sus propios padres. Sepa que la persona que se lo ha dado se preocupa mucho por usted y está preocupada por su bienestar.
Puede haber nuevos desafíos, con algún tipo de pandemia, si eso sucede en el nuevo 2020, intente obedecer las reglas, no sea una oveja en Hurd. Manténgase alejado de situaciones que puedan lastimarlo y también esto pasará.
El hecho de que esta nueva situación dañará al mundo, eventualmente podría ser el nuevo estándar y la nueva forma de vida será adaptativa y adaptable. Un modelo a seguir para los niños, ¡y mantén siempre la fe!
Por favor, mantenga la mente abierta y escuche atentamente lo que papá y mamá tienen que decir. Acepte que es posible que deba confiar en su juicio sobre el suyo (nuevamente el año que viene) Es posible que le pidan que deje de hacer algo que cree que todavía puede hacer, o le pidan que sea el cuidador porque este año su salud se estará deteriorando. O pueden pedirle que acepte ayuda que no siente que necesita. Debo advertirles en cuanto a su salud, este año uniforme llamado 2020 será un desafío. Cuídate muy bien. Sea un ejemplo para los niños.
En cuanto a la diversión de los blogs en Hive, intente ver si preguntas como: ¿Cuáles son sus motivaciones más profundas? ¿Qué es lo que siempre has deseado hacer? ¿Qué es lo que realmente te apasiona? ¿Hay algo a lo que valga la pena dedicar su vida?
¿Qué impulsa sus acciones y decisiones? ¿Cuáles son los valores que más le importan? ¿Qué te hace realmente feliz o enojado? ¿Quiénes son tus mayores inspiraciones en la vida y quiénes son las personas que no puedes soportar? ¿Y por qué? Pueden ser blogs de 2000 palabras. Solo para ampliar un poco la escritura.
La meta de la colmena 2020 serán 3000 seguidores y 20.000 colmena, una discordia que florece y una victoria en la liga de engagement, cómo es que para algunas metas extra, me conoces siempre tratando de estirar los logros.
Espero que recuerde que quería aprender de sus experiencias tanto en línea como en la vida real y que hasta ese momento, escribió esta carta para ayudarlo a recordar esos tiempos y para aceptar el consejo y la ayuda de las personas que cuidado, y lo más importante saber que creo que eres maravilloso y que tu honestidad es la mejor política.
Tanto por ellos como por ti.
Britt
Esposa amorosa, mamá de 4,
amante de la vida y pasional hiver
Ah, y Britt, no olvides que es muy importante incluir y mantener el tiempo para la recreación, la diversión, los deportes y otras formas de entretenimiento, tu club de chicas, esa sonrisa de diversión debe estar en tu cara todos los días.
Gracias a @livinguktaiwan por crear este serio desafío y etiquetarme.
Aquí está el blog original:
https://peakd.com/hive-124452/@livinguktaiwan/a-letter-to-me-in-2019
Me alegro de que mi carta para 2020 escrita hace un año esté lista, esta es una de las más difíciles y espero que pueda ser anual. Me han etiquetado varias veces, etiquetaré a @jaynie @ bigtom13 @galenkp @jlufer @wesphilbin @eugelys @thekittygirl, @xcountytravelers @justclickindiva @jizzyjoe @shrazi @librepensadora @adalger @jamerussell @ sacra97 @jerrytsuseer y @kerrisarlveravelers @ medro-martin
Escríbete una carta en 2019 y usa la etiqueta # mein2019.
Por favor ingrese a cualquier otra persona que quiera unirse.
Sí, es difícil pero ciertamente divertido.
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Blog Date : 26 december 2020
An excellent translation is perfectly understood, I will be waiting on Christmas days with meal preparations, thank you for tagging me and sharing your beautiful letter. @brittandjosie
Una excelente traducción se entiende perfectamente, estare pendiente ando en los días navideños con preparativos de comidas, gracias por etiquetarme y compartir tu carta tan bonita.
@sacra97 thank you for the grammer check that means a lot. And I hope the food was delicious we have a beautiful dinner with our family feliz navidad
Awesome letter and some deep thoughts there @brittandjosie!!!
Sorry for the late reply my dear friend and that coming from you is a big compliment and I appreciate it because this was a hard one!
This tag goes to show that My 2004 Magic Eight ball is of absolutely no use any more.
Hahahaha i didn’t even know that was a tag but we need new tags for 2021
https://twitter.com/Bhattg18/status/1342795291041255425
Y'know, I think it'd be nice if we could go back in time to give ourselves some advice and completely redo 2020.
Well we can't redo but we can relive moments and change the outcome how snot a promise we try that for the kids and if it works for our selves aswell.
Gonna be a hard though
Many stop listening to what mum and dad and the elderlies have to say when they grow up, and overlook the fact they have a wealth of valuable experience. Some may be out of date but personal experience is never outdated, especially when some of them have experience the war and harsh times. That can be a beacon for us in 2020.
Your Me in 2019 will be so pleased that you achieved one of your Hive goals. Congrats!
True and the truth is I am looking more and more like my mum in both life and raising the kids. It’s a funny thing to see the resemblance. I reached more than one goal. I made 3 !! And I am so proud it’s been fun so I will for sure be here next year and let’s hope that the price will rise to the moon
Hi, dear @brittandjosie
It is strange to write a letter in the past tense for such an unbalanced year.
But, if we come to the end of this impressive year, it means that we have the strength to continue.
I am not worried about what is coming, because I know that we are ending a very hard era (which has not ended yet), to begin a better one.
Life is eternal and continuous. So it is best to live in the present.
A big hug
Well said and so true. It's hard sometimes but certainly worth it
Thanks dear for inviting me to participate, I already wrote and published my letter. I really enjoy reading your letter, which is quite emotional and full of much reflection.
A hug!
I sometimes don't know who entered what contest so sorry
A beautifully written letter to yourself. Although it seems that the letter should be for 2020 to yourself for next year, 2021 partly because the entire year will have gone by in two days. Maybe I'm reading it incorrectly.
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