What I have learnt about life..
Life isn't a bed of roses, life will surely make you learn either in the bad way or the good way.. Life is a lesson which will surely put us right to the right path if we do not want to get to the right path.. life is made up series of thing and it is a world entirely.. In my recent times, I have truly learnt a lot and this has made me come to realise that nothing in this world come without one learning from it.
Sometimes, they say love is blind, but I stand to say, love is never blind and we as a human are the one's that get blinded by the love and affection we have towards someone.. when we see someone we like or love, most especially for the guys, we are always blinded by what qualities we have within us and we always forget that we need to be calm before getting deeply in love with anyone because you can never be sure if the person you are in love with is also having the same feelings for you...
Most of the time, I love to get into conversation with ladies and also learn from their own experience because, for a guy, it's better to become friends with ladies if you really want to learn about ladies because they are the ones you will get married to.. I was in a discussion with a lady some days ago and then I was talking to her about why doesn't ladies get to love guys back the way guys love them especially those ladies that guys like..
And the lady told me that it's hard for some ladies to love a guy back the way the guy has loved them especially when they see that the guy really loves them.. But this hurts so much, how will you not love your partner the way he has loved you?? This will make the guy become a beast because when such person will find out that you are not loving them the way they have loved you, it will make such person feel less of themself and this might affect the guys relationship with another lady because he will sure be thinking that is how other ladies will be...
These has affected me recently because I had this encounter with a lady which I love so much but turns out she didn't love me at all after a couple of months we have spent together and I was building up a relationship with her thinking it will lead to a serious relationship and then we get married.. In the process of discussing this issue with a friend of mine, she told me not every lady we date during our courtship, we endup getting married to.. some just came to put our life in a right way and some came into our life to make us learn a lesson either a hard lesson or a good lesson..
In what ever thing we do, we should always ensure we do not learn lesson in the hard way .. This is hard to avoid, but sometimes we get caught In between where we are left with no other choice on whether to leave the person that has done this to us total or still stand by them.. In a relationship where this happens, will you advise such a guy to still be a friend with such lady or just leave the lady to go totally and end everything with her??? This is a question I want everyone reading this to at least contribute to with an answer..
Thanks for reading my article, hope to see you next time.. Happy weekend..