When to Stop...

A Lot of times when people get into trouble, it is not because they never heard any warning about the crime they committed, they just felt, they could do that crime and get away or allowed their emotions drive them otherwise I believe they know when to STOP.

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Let's talk about R*pe for instance, we know sex is pleasurable, I mean especially when it is with someone you have always wanted to make love to...
It is a beautiful thing, but STOP at any point you feel your partner is disconnected from the process, whether at the point of foreplay or in the very depth of thrust, stop.

You will feel it, stop and ask why they are disconnecting.
I know that sometimes, you would have obtained their consent, you guys are in the mood and all but still, if they ask you to stop, in words, actions or reactions, you have to stop.

Broooo, I know it is painful... but this is me telling you that if you go on and you end up in jail, you would not enjoy sex again for like fifteen (15) years at least...
Think about that.

So if you are wondering if there is an offence if she had given her consent before or thinking, she's a woman anyway and nothing will happen, that my dear friend is the voice of your village people calling and you need to rebuke them.

Many times I have had to be in your shoes, in fact, even if I was dating the lady and I see any sign of refusal or displeasure with my contact with her even though we are both stack naked, I stop.

Now this is not just because I am scared of jail but I have a thing that makes me only enjoy love making if my partner is enjoying it too, this has helped me a lot of times.

In fact, even if she says go ahead after I had spotted her show of resistance, I will stop still and not continue only until we have cleared what ever makes her feel bad at a time she should be super excited.

This should be your watchword too... I want to enjoy this and I can only enjoy it if my partner is enjoying it too.

Let it guide you, it will save you always.

STOP!