A GOOD TOOL FOR BRINGING CHANGE

We all have our differences and I don't think there's anybody on earth who don't get angry. At times anger can come through for us and atimes it might make things worse. Some people won't take you serious when you're not angry with them, when you laugh with them they'll think you're unserious. And that won't being about the change you want.
But then anger is not the best solution to everything.

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Most times when one is angry you'll have little control of what you say or do, you would say some things unconsciously. And then you also do things that you might not do on a normal day.
Someone like me, I don't like getting angry, reason being that most times I would blame myself afterwards because I'll do the unbelievable. Lets just say I have a very hot temperament therefore I try as much as possible not to get angry with anyone.
So Instead of me getting angry I'll rather keep quiet or walk away from the scene.

In the same way you can't change me being angry, I detest being corrected in an angry state. I prefer you talk to me calmly and settle things amicably with that we'll be good and move on fine. Talking about punishment too I could remember back then when my mum usually punish me and my younger brother for going out to play football, she would always beat us each time we go out to play but that doesn't stop us from playing the next day.
And when she sees that it's not working she tried talking some sense into our head and with that we adjust gradually and she allowed us to go play sometimes and not Everytime with this everyone is cool and things go on smoothly.

In summary I would say there's time for everything atimes if you really need to effect change in some situations you need to get angry so the people involved would know that you're not cool with the situation and atimes you'll just have to calm down and settle things amicably.

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