Abundance.Tribe's BiWeekly Question - What's The Hardest Truth You Have Learned!

The hardest truth i have ever learned is saying sorry, Because if they do it they will still do it again, Making the sorry not valuable, So instead of telling me sorry, I will even prefer you tell me take heart, even if you were the one that done that to me or make me sad, sorry will be too much, since I know you will not keep to it, so telling me take heart will be much appreciated as not to depends of anything from you of any kind.

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Although I do not have to put the blame on anyone, seeing the way the life we are living is, how difficult it can seems at times, and what we used to go through each day by day, make me understand no matter what you see a man does, he has a reason for doing what you see him do, so getting angry at him is not the way forward but to understand and put yourself in his shoes is vividly appreciable.

Man think and do a thing he knows will Benefits him more before considering another person, thinking of this will make us understand that man is self circling, what I meant by self circling is self love before love for another.

Which is normal because they said, charity begins at home, so if you can love yourself, you can as well love another person.

One more to talk about is that, whatsoever may come your way it come to either show you a lesson or to stay in your life, now , it is your ability to keep it or to push it away.

A girl that I date in 2013, once slap me in the face just because I told her not to be lying, he got angry at me for giving her advise and corrections and instead of working towards it, she got angry and slapped me on the face.

To me, I understand that, nothing seems so far and nothing is so clear until you go closer, I didn't expect her to acts or changed immediately, but I was expecting her to work towards it, maybe as times goes on, she can begin to do away with too much lies but what did she do, she turn. My advice down and decided to put an end to our relationship, just like that, I beg and beg her, but she wouldn't listen.

When I asked her, the reasons she wants to break up with me, she said, I speak arrogantly with her, I was out of what to say, to cut the long story short, she did broke up with me, and up to a week, no call from her but some days back, I think two days ago.

I saw her call, telling me to forgive her, that she was wrong to have acted so sudden, she said, I am sorry please forgive me, I told her that elders said, what I see while sitting down, you as a young adult can not see until you stand up.

I replied, I have forgiven you but I am afraid that you may do it again, because they said, what they already did, they will do it again.

She said I would never do it again, that was how I got Margaret my girlfriend back.

Yet, I am still afraid of her since sorry now means, I will do it again.

But what can i do, I am a man, I have limits to everything that I am to do.