When Your Good Deeds Go Unnoticed

Have you ever done something for someone, and they repaid you with ingratitude? It can be very frustrating when that happens. Also, it is important for us to remember that some people may not recognize our effort or may not have the ability to reciprocate. To add to that point, we also need to remember in the back of our minds that it's not a reflection of us, but rather of their character.


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When certain people repay our sacrifices with ingratitude, we feel very bad and sometimes start to wonder if we were the ones who went wrong. In this post, I wanted us to understand that it is important to be forgiving.

Honestly, that act of forgiving can be very hard, but if you take a closer look, you would see that it is the only way we can have that inner peace that we deserve. Forgiveness can be a difficult process, but it is ultimately worth it. It allows us to move on from the past, let go of any anger or resentment, and create a better future for ourselves. Forgiveness is the key to restoring our own inner peace and happiness.


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When someone repays us with ingratitude, we should try to take a step back and understand that they may not be capable of appreciating or repaying our efforts. We should remember that they may not be capable of understanding or recognizing our worth. We should instead focus on being kind and thankful for the experiences and lessons we gained from the situation.

We should focus on doing the best that we can without expecting anything in return. It's just like doing your best and leaving the rest behind.

Speaking of being repaid with ingratitude, what can be worse than being completely honest with someone, giving them your whole heart, and having them shatter it into a million pieces? It's heartbreaking, and it's a difficult feeling to process. It can make you feel like you wasted your time and that your efforts weren't appreciated. It's an experience that can take a long time to heal from.

This is currently my dilemma; it is also a long story that I would love to share someday soon, but for now, I am not ready. I'm still processing it and trying to figure out how to move forward. I'm trying to find solace in knowing that I did my best and that I did my best to make it successful. I'm trying to find the courage to take the lessons I learned and use them in my future endeavors.

In fact, I wouldn't even call what I feel as being hurt, but rather relieved. Even though there were indications that something like that would happen, such ingratitude was not expected. I'm glad the truth came out and that I can now move on with my life. I'm glad I had the chance to confront the person and set the record straight. I'm glad I can now move on with my life.



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This whole experience has made me understand that, as humans, we make our plans, but God has the last word.

I still communicate with the person once in a while, but only when I feel it is necessary. So far, I am just grateful for the lessons that I have learned from this experience, and I'm doing my best to make sure that I do not make the same mistakes again.

There is this popular saying that everything works together for good for those who love God. Also, I believe whatever happens to anyone on earth, happens for a reason, and I'm trusting that God has a plan for me.

If it wasn't God's will, it wouldn't have happened. This event makes me remember when the cold hands of death snatched my cousin away from us.

We did all we could, we prayed and had strong faith. Despite all this, she still died. God was aware of everything, but he still thought it was better she left this world.

Well,I am using this experience to grow and become a better version of myself.

All images in this post are mine



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I totally agree with you, and that's why I said people are people, there are some that can be so grateful and others that don't show it at all but then in the end we should be proud of ourselves to have done good.

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I like what you said. We should be proud of ourselves, knowing that we did our best.
It's another reason why we shouldn't expect anything from anyone.

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Yeah, we should just do what we can do and don't expect anything in return, that way we can never get hurt.

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Exactly sis.
How are you doing?

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I'm doing fine and you?

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I'm fine too. Trying to study to the upcoming test and exam.

How is your studies going?

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That's nice, I wish you all the best with all of them.

Studies are going well, I'm on break for now

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