The conception of a bully.
In the cause of growing up bullying has always been experienced by most individuals in several aspect of life, sometimes it tend not to occur to them that it is a form of bullying.
The truth is bullying does not only cause physical pain as to what some people will think but bullying can cause mental stress such as anxiety and fear, bullying can be emotional when it has to do with feeling unhappy due to what someone said.
Bullying to some school of thought they say it is natural and they find pleasure in bullying others. To some by trying to feel superior they end up bullying the fragile, this way of feeling superior can be found in families where elder brothers or sisters are trying to prove seniority even when they are not right and ends up bullying the younger ones, senior students want to show they are superior due to what their predecessors has instilled in them they feel it is the right thing to do, the funny thing is they call it tradition. Must tradition always have to be observed?.
In the case of this senior students they sit down to conceive possible ways they can bully the junior students. I have always hated intimidation right from childhood, so I never wanted any of its scenarios around me because I can’t resist it when I am around and someone is bullied, this alone has gotten me into different problems were I was beaten but I never stopped getting involved in bullying situations, this alone made me not to be scared of those who see bullying as food, with this I was still respectful, trying to live in such a way I wouldn’t be the one that everyone wants to bully.
Another form of bullying is by brainwashing someone, with this it can cause mental pain, most of us may not have experienced propaganda before but to those who have, it's not easy facing this pain.Propaganda is not only applicable to superior bodies but also to that friend who you might have influenced a false image of him or her, this will definitely cause emotional pain.
How to curb bullying
•To stop bullying the mindset of the bully should be the focus, knowing that the fact that you are strong or in a superior position does not make others indecisive.
•We should learn to value others, the reason why most individuals cause pain to their fellow is because they don't value them, but if you value something you would treat it with care.
Thank you for reading!!
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I've Never experienced bullying but I know what it feels like from the story people tell. One of my friends had to change school twice due to bullying and it wasn't funny at all. It's so inhumane to bully others
You are lucky you haven't been a victim, the feeling is awful.
Thank you for reading @teknon.
I never wish to be a victim. Have a nice day
You're very brave because you always step in whenever you notice any form of bullying even if you get hurt or beaten in the process. That's the spirit we individuals need to fight bullying in the society but sadly not everyone wants to be the hero. Thank you for sharing.
If it's something I can help I will definitely help. Being beaten when I was small for a friend but since then it has not been so again.
Thank you for reading @stellageorge.
Thank you for sharing.
I'm much thankful to say, I've never experienced bully but I just feel how it looks like from those that have been bullied in one way or the other and I hope the government will look into it as much as possible.
You are right but they're locations government can't really act though, the simplest thing is starting with ourselves, the environment you live in, how we can advise those we feel are bullying others. With this I feel it will go a long way.
Thank you for reading my post and for the contribution.
Nicely written, you really enlightened me.
Thank you for reading @katirayo, Glad you found it enlightening.
You are welcome @isaacngore I really found it enlighten.