The Power of Choices: Unveiling the Debate of Career Before Marriage

In some societies it is considered to get married first and then build the career and also some are on the other side of building career first and then marriage.

it is something comes with big responsibility like two people pathways are same when they're married, looking after each other, making choices and decisions together to increasing the population. Marriage is one of most beautiful relations when everything goes well.

Nowadays living in a time where I've seen couples crying about relationships and singles crying about not being in a relationship.

My point of view regarding marriage is kinda different from most of people from my society and culture.

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The Arrange Vs Love Marriage

In our culture we mostly have arrange marriage than love marriages and in those arrange marriages the choice to find your partner is in parents hand.

Like majority of parents do their own research seeing background of other person to all that part and also gives that person to accept or reject proposals but some don't give that authority and choice like forced arrange marriage is a thing and it comes with worse consequences.

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When the whole relationship is built on parents wish, no understanding and all that's where I believe fault exist and most relationship fails.

Now when it's about love marriage our society act like it's disgusting some people think if my daughter love that guy it becomes the matter of their Dignity and people will raise questions.

So, it's kind of a hustle you've to fight and take stand for it but also some parents do allow love marriage just like I know my parents will let me decide who'll be my partner.

But well, I ain't no hurry at all and think I need to build career first before thinking about it.

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The Choice of Career Before Marriage I believe those who prioritize career before marriage are people working to give their life some directions and on a field where there is stability and providing family is possible.

Like a mature person who earns something to meet his own expenses hardly won't think of marrying instead he'll focus on work, savings and planning.

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To make their partner life more better and happy married life. I've seen people complaining or suffering in their married life when someone ain't ready to do job, not providing family and it gets more complicated.

So, I believe to make this husband and wife relation a beautiful one we need to have career or such supportive partner and chemistry to take steps together.

For now, I better focus on present self to make future bright... For myself, Parents who have expectations or partner who's so far a myth.

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Wrapping up...
In the end such choice of making decisions should only belong to us who have to spend their life with each other.. I want to know what your thoughts are on this marriage before career or after career thing in comments.

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