Anger snatches the charm of the face!!
Anger causes lines to form on our forehead and change the angles of our face and then our mind goes out of control and fire words come out of our mouths that are sometimes unforgivable and unforgettable.
Anger can never be good for a person.
In many cases, I have seen that even if a person is truthful and explains himself in anger, people consider him a liar. And most of the people even being liars but talk in a polite manner that people believe them to be true. The only difference between these two versions is the accents. I think people who are more emotional tend to be more angry. When any of their emotions or any of their words are not understood, those people find it more important to get angry with a calm temper. Perhaps one reason for this is that they think people understand angry language more quickly.
One thing I always know is that "promises made in anger and decisions made in anger only lead to regret later."
There is no doubt that anger is a natural emotion but very several people know how to handle anger.
We lose a lot by getting angry.
Fall in the eyes of others:
When we humiliate a person in front of everyone in anger, we lose our honour and respect in their eyes. And also we lose our innocence. There are always two options to explain things, one is to explain your point in a calm mood and the other is to explain it with anger. Therefore, it is better to think about the respect of others so that tomorrow we do not have to be embarrassed in front of others.
Lost our mind:
By getting angry, we create problems not only for others but also for ourselves. When we get too angry, our blood pressure rises, headaches start, and we just want to kill the next person alive. We don't give space to the other person to understand and by our behaviour we want him to understand what we are saying but it doesn't happen at all.
We disobey people:
If people try to tell us our mistake or try to explain it to us, then we start to misunderstand them too. And at a time we think that all these people have left us alone. We don't listen to them and even also get away from such people in anger.
Make decisions wrong:
Some people get so mad with anger that they divorce their wife and saying that "I divorced in anger, please forgive me".
Have you ever heard that divorce is given in love?
Definitely no, A person takes such steps only in anger. We must not allow anger to dominate us so much that we lose many relationships over it.
Anger is not the solution۔ Anger is like a fire that sometimes consumes everything. If we are really hurt because of someone, then it's not important that we can say the same thing to him in anger, we can also say it in a nice way. And I believe that man understands the language of love better.
So,
Learn to control your anger before it controls you.
The thing is; we can't really stop ourselves from getting angry, it's a normal emotional response to certain situations but we can put anger under control and suppress it before it makes us do things we will regret
This is what I wanted to explain in the article that anger should be controlled. And he who has come to control may be he can succeed in every stage.
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You are right. Anger is not good for us in any aspect. We made wrong decisions and lose our true friends. We say many things which which we don't want to say.
And by the time we realize this, it's too late. Therefore, words should be used thoughtfully.
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Yes. Getting angry and frowning always causes wrinkles on the face. Anger is a very deadly weapon. It can destroy in a matter of seconds. The best thing to do when you’re angry is just to walk away from what is making you angry.
Don’t make decisions when you’re angry and don’t make promises when you’re too happy.
Thanks for sharing.
Exactly, we should go away so that no one can be hurt by our anger. This will also give us time to think.
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I used to be a living example of almost all you listed in the write up.
Sometimes ago, when I'm mad at someone I always want everyone not to also talk to that person and keep distance from the person just like I did.
I later got to discover that all those things were wrong.
And ever since I changed, my life took a new turn and also, reading your post rekindled the almost forgotten lessons I learnt then.
It's really a pleasure to go through your post pal. thanks!
It's great that you learned a good lesson from it. You changed yourself and learned that anger is very dangerous.
A U-turn at such a place is life-changing and I'm glad you did.
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Yeah, it's really good that i changed.
And also, thank God for beautiful minds like yours who write either from experience or gotten ideas to impact others life!
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You are welcome dear friend, keep it up.
You are good at what you do!
Whennour anger is what dictates most of our actions, we would find out that we tend to make more mistakes because those actions will be made without a clear mind.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
After getting angry, we realize that we have done wrong. That's why, anything should be done thoughtfully. Anger only tarnishes beauty in front of everyone.
Solution: Be SILENT when you are angry.
Conclusion: Angry😡 has a negative side of our everyday life, say no to anger to increase your life span on earth. " If you are patient in one minute of anger, you would escape a hundred days of sorrow"
My little contribution to support all you have said.
Thanks for sharing
You are absolutely right, in such a situation, either the servant should get up and leave or remain silent.
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Thank you for sharing
You have said it all dear, anger causes us to loose our innocence and makes us disrespect those ahead of us when we don't know how to control it. A very simple issue that can be tackled can be made so big by anger. Anger really makes us look old and frustrated. Thanks for sharing this
Indeed, When we think that we can be insulted because of anger, we also disrespect the next people. We really have to get over it.
Thank you @emreal for passing through my post. 💕
You are most welcome my personal person
Sometimes our anger can be a good thing if we have to lead someone but if we are angry to scare someone or to take revenge from someone then it will work as Acid.
Thanks for sharing with all of us😊.
I think this acid control is a sign of maturity. Revenge with anger is not the solution to everything, what we want to explain in anger, we can also do it gently.
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Lovely write up i just learnt a lot from you post thanks.
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This shook me inside, I have seen too many divorces made in anger which just ruined the life of their own children:(
Of course, they regret it later. And then there is no point in regretting either. Therefore, controlling anger is preeminent.
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