Dealing With Annoyance: Mild

Hello everyone I hope you all are doing fine. I will want to share how I deal with annoyance especially from my partner. I discovered anyone could hurt me and I don’t easily let go but hers I do let go easily.

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I will be sharing the reasons why I do so.

I am sure we all agree relationship is very important at some point in life. There comes a point in time where you understand you need a partner. Not a sex partner or play mate but for a serious relationship ahead for the future.

Sometimes she hurts me on simple a thing that doesn’t really matter but I understand that since it’s a relationship, focusing your annoyance on things that doesn’t really matter breeds easy quarrels and unnecessary arguments I do let go.
So that there will be peace because I can't control my own annoyance too, so often I embrace peace.

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Even though I am not to be blamed, I still have to say sorry because I understand that women heart are fragile.

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Another reason why I do let go is that she is just getting into a relationship for the first time and hence may not have known some relationship ethics. I forgive her easily then later explain her flaws to her telling her, if I should be angry the way she is with me on the issue, nothing good will come out from it but if we forgive each other and let go, there are pleasantries ahead.

I am glad she is beginning to learn something and accepts her mistake and we move on.

Another who I find easily to forgive

I find it easy to forgive my siblings whenever they do wrong to me, I just focus on advising them on how to move ahead.

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What I discovered

• Been annoyed with people around you whereby you feel it’s difficult to forgive isn’t the right thing especially if they are closer to you. Forgiveness brings correction, if there is willingness to learn but not everyone is perfect, but with forgiveness one can be made unto perfection.

• Annoyance is never an option but it destroys and breeds malice.

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Thanks for reading, do have an awesome day.