SIBLINGS ARE GREAT BUT CAN BE ANNOYING TOO

I don’t think I have ever wished for more siblings because.. what?? My siblings and I altogether are 10, so why should I wish for more, to be honest I wish we were lesser but that decision was not mine to make. My mum gave birth to 7 and my dad brought extra 3 from outside making it a polygamous home. Having more siblings is fun and interesting but it also means sharing your personal stuffs too without them asking.
Siblings are everything and more but they can also be annoying, I can’t even count how many times my immediate younger sister annoys me but what can I do, I’m the type that tolerates alot, so I mostly over look things and even after she annoys me I dont even know we make up and starts talking and laughing together again.

[A photo of my younger sister]

Having much siblings comes with alot ups and down even when you all came from thesame womb, there’s is alot happiness and fights too, what made me get to the point of wishing for a much lesser siblings was because, i had extra three siblings which came from three different women, the first woman is from the east, while the remaining two is from the south and same tribe with us.

Personally everyone has different characters and behaviors, but coming from thesame mother atleast bring all most having thesame mind among the children, but when you have step siblings from your father or mother, there is always a different or biased mind within the children, there is jealousy and quarreling among the children and even with the women too.
I have experienced this many times and it always made me wish that I didnt have step siblings apart from my siblings from my mum.

Three years back when my dad passed, and then it was time for the his burial, normally the children are to pay a certain amount to add to the amount that my dad’s family was going to bring, so two of my step siblings decided not to pay a dime, the other child is just a little girl, my other siblings and I had already paid the little we had. My siblings and I had to let go and just fill up the remaining part of the money. But when it was time to share my father’s wealth, they were given much more than us because they came from different mothers, I was so angry but I couldn’t do anything because I was young and this was decided by our uncles, so we didn’t have any choice than to follow the rules to avoid causing troubles.

We’ve had series of arguments and fights, although there were times when we lived, played and ate together but I honestly don’t feel its thesame with them just like my main siblings. I love them all but I just wished that I didn’t have to deal with a polygamous home.
I just had to get passed it because, whether I like it or not they are already my siblings and nothing can change that, and it wasn’t their fault that they were born into our family.

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