Becoming memorable or forgettable ?

I will never forget you, these are the words which you hear numerous times. When getting departed after ending the school, college and university life we do promise to remain connected in life. But do we conform to all these promises ( forget the one which you do with your gf or bf they are a part of another life ) . The question is not why we crack these promises, the point of thinking is why can't we always save them in our mind. Why are they forgotten in the long run? Should we only do business in relationships? Should we subsidize less time in stretching the bond?

• Interaction and relationships!

Our life includes several interactions. More people, more memories,more experience we reap. I wonder if someone can compute the exact number of interactions a single human being acquired throughout their life. The outcomes would be surprising for you. In accordance with me we never forget anyone (until we confront Alzihmers or other aging disease). They are only replaced with new ones. I am not involving the online relationships, if the message can vanish so the screenshots and so the people. Physical world has more mysteries. I don't remember the people I interacted with online but yes do remember the support they have shown in hard times. When the hard times transpire in someone's life?? No one knows this so it's better to have an eye on others. So that you can have the alliance back too.

• Materlistic aspects are moral?

Will your money help you in making you alive in people's memory?? Somehow if you are performing charity work, people will keep you alive and history would be evident too. But in case your usable money contradicts their need which should be fulfilled. They will remember you. Power you are having in your hand might make you memorable. If used wrong they will call you with a horrible name but still you will be remembered with cursing words. If used power went in the right direction, the hero will be portrayed greatly by each historian.

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• Physical attributes are impressive?

Dinosaurs were the giant mammals of all time but scientifically their extinction was favourable as it supported the letter mammals to grow. If this didn't happen, you and I wouldn't be there. So we remember them because of theiranimals Ants are tiny creatures but their working ability makes them appreciable. So now the size of your body doesn't imply whether you will be alive or disappear from others mind. It's the goodness of your personality. No one makes a wish to die ( the people who are frustrated from life , society and problems are on the other side ) .

All we wish is "history should remember me

People should recall that once there was Shireen ( 5 years ago I had a dream to make my name as writer and now I am the only writer from my whole city who is doing something on blockchain, when I feel low this motivates me to keep going as it's my step so I should be the narrator while telling the success stories to others )

• Beauty of personality?

Beauty doesn't stay with you ( no matter how hard you do with anti aging stuff,) even your looks modify each year so you can think that people's attitude won't change. They will forget you in seconds if it's related to beauty or looks. So everything failed in terms of materialistic stuff in order to remember them. They will forget and they have to forget. Now how you can stay alive in their mind.

"With a good act of humanity.

A piece of paper can expire with passage of time but a good nature person and his /her good deeds can't be ignored after a time. Socrates, was deemed a betrayer at that time, he died in facing opposition but history proved him right. So while doing true and innovative things you don't have to take stress, that is why me. Same in the case of rejection or acceptance too. You have to because you are meant for this.

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You can buy the sympathies and feedback of people for a longer time. In fact the time remains credible to none. So how and why someone can't promise to keep you alive in memories. Our actions associated with them can draw a rough sketch in their minds. They can ignore the pleasure they obtained but can relate the good things attached with it. We think multiple times that

our good deeds will keep us memorable.

• Why they should remember you?

But somehow the world even forgets those deeds too.

Because for them your newest faults are enough to portray you faulty.

In my view people will remember you if they want to, but it's the desire of them to forget you. Then all of the goodness of your personality isn't enough to make them realise. Be honest with your ethical personality and forget about the world and do what the Lord has assigned you. Making yourself perfect and smashing your own desires for the creepy world is horrifying. Enjoy each moment of life and always recall yourself as prerogative as it's the real self actualisation.

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