Forced Adoptions - A Series Of Posts Taking A Deeper Look into Those Involved

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The many voices of forced adoption.

In this series of articles, I will attempt to layout evidence from the various perspectives of those involved in forced adoption within the UK. My subjects will include; parents, agents of the State e.g. social workers and CAFCASS, adoptees, adopters, legal professionals, and politicians. My aim is to organise the many voices who are trying to put across their POV in order for you, the reader, to be able to better understand the complex issue of "forced adoptions".

Chapter 1

The History of Forced Adoption

In 1926 the first legislation relating to adoption was passed for England and Wales, and broadly similar legislation rapidly followed for Northern Ireland and Scotland. Since then almost every decade has seen new laws introduced that increasingly regulate the process of adoption in the United Kingdom.

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While it is often said that the UK is the only European country to facilitate forced adoptions, which is to say a child may be taken by the state against the wishes of the birth parents, it must be understood that almost all countries have legal mechanisms that allow for children to be removed from the care of their parents without their consent. However, it is widely observed and commented upon that the UK's Child Protection Services(CPS) choose to employ this tactic much more frequently than any other country.

In the year 2000 Prime Minister Tony Blair implemented drastic policy changes in an attempt to speed up the process for those children who were in the care of the state but who had not yet found an adoptive home. Setting targets for local governments, the intention was to raise the adoption rates by at least 40%.
While these targets may have been well-intended, the real-world consequences of how those targets were met became a much-debated subject and a breeding ground for suspicion.

following the introduction of targets to speed up finding a home for children in care, some then argue that the ‘law of unintended consequences came into play and these targets acted to promote undesirable behaviour from those in the child protection system.

John Hemming has argued that these targets did little to help the older children already in care but rather had the effect of encouraging local authorities to issue care proceedings with regard to more ‘adoptable’ children so they would filter through the system, end up adopted quickly and improve the adoption rates.

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Not long after, Tony Blair's government drew up a White paper titled "Adoption: a new approach" which would go on to be used as the backbone for the Adoption and Children Act 2002, an Act which had the sole purpose to promote and prioritise the use of adoptions as a method to safeguard "children in need".

While the 2002 Act still remains, in 2006 the policy of giving local councils "targets" was officially scrapped. However, this had little effect on the number of children being taken into care. To put some context to exactly how little impact removing targets had, here are some government statistics:

Children looked after in England including adoption: 2010 to 2011 - There were 65,520 looked-after children at 31 March 2011, an increase of 2% from 2010 and an increase of 9% since 2007.

Children looked after in England including adoption: 2011 to 2012 - There were 67,050 looked-after children at 31 March 2012, an increase of 2% compared to 31 March 2011 and an increase of 13% compared to 31 March 2008.

Children looked after in England including adoption: 2014 to 2015 - There were 69,540 looked after children at 31 March 2015, an increase of 1% compared to 31 March 2014 and an increase of 6% compared to 31 March 2011.

Children looked after in England including adoption: 2020 to 2021 - In 2021, the number of Children Looked After(CLA) by local authorities in England rose to its highest level at 80,850, up 1% on last year and continuing the rise seen in recent years.

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As you can see, every successive government has played its part in accelerating the rates of children taken into care. The majority of these children will never be returned to their family nor will they be adopted. Instead, they will find themselves in limbo moving between foster carers and care homes, never to experience nature's most basic biological necessity, which is family. But even the very few who are adopted face similar trauma, as we will explore next.

The Consequences Of Separation

I feel it is stating the obvious to say that, separating a child or young adult from their family, for whatever reason, has a traumatic effect on the child. It should also go without saying that, depending on the circumstances, it is equally traumatic for the parent. In some cases where the parent(s) are abusive to their own children, I feel it safe to say the impact of adoption is only traumatic for the child because even in abusive relationships a child will still have a bond with his/her parents. Therefore, even in cases where a child being taken into care is necessary that child will still suffer in the same way as one who has been torn apart from a loving family. It must be agreed that placing any child into care is a blunt instrument and one that comes at a high cost.

According to a study published by the Canadian Paediatric Society, suicide is the second most common cause of death among Canadian adolescents: 25% of all deaths of youths age 15-19 in 2011 were by suicide. A second study published in 2013 in the journal Pediatrics found that adoptees are ~4 times more likely to attempt suicide than non-adoptees. Out of the 1165 study participants, which included 657 adopted and 508 non-adopted adolescents ranging in age from 13 to 17 at the start of the study, 56 young people reported that they had attempted suicide. Of those 56 individuals, 47 were adoptees.

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It must also be considered that the loss of identity plays a huge part in the destruction of ones own self. Up until researching to write this post, I was unaware that medical records are withheld from, both, the adoptees and their adoptive parents. Any genetic background of their biological family or historical medical knowledge of inheritable ailments will remain in a sealed box until the child becomes an adult. It is also quite common for the child being adopted to have their birth name erased and then given a new identity. For some adopted children they will be quite aware that their name has been changed. One has to wonder how many of them know their original name? And it is also worth considering what it must be like having to write ones own name in the knowledge that it isn’t actually the name they were given at birth…

The impact of this "identity-scrubbing" would no doubt have a devastating effect on any adopted child, so it should come as little surprise to learn about the suicide rates amongts adoptees. For those who play a role in placing children into the care system these facts must be common knowledge, but as you have seen through the yearly rise in numbers it appears a certain amount of collateral damage is acceptable. Before we move on from this subject I think that we must take a moment to ponder these sobering numbers. Just how many of the 80,000 children that were placed into care during the year 2020 to 2021 will go on to commit suicide? And then how many of the next 80,000 taken into care the following year? In the past ten years, how many innocent children have we already lost? And that what of the parents who also go through the trauma of having their beloved child taken from them? How many of them have also taken their own lives? I speak from personal experience when I tell you that the Social Services crush and trample on the lives of innocent families, turning loving parents into criminals with nothing more to live for. I have yet to find the statistics for the suicides that are consequence of the injustices of the, so called, "Care system".

As shocking as these figures are at face value, it is a harsh reality that the fate of these children will never be learned from, and they will only ever end up being nothing more than a statistic. Only when we bother to look deeper do we really begin to empathize with them, and only then will we start to understand what a crude and illogical instrument forced adoptions really are. I understand that there are occasions where there is simply no other choice, but when we are talking of 80,000 children per year I refuse to accept this as a status quo. What is happening is neither rational or humane.

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. In the next edition we will explore the perspective of some outspoken politicians who have campaigned for and against forced adoptions and take a look at the what impact their action had.

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Great article, I look forward to chapter 2.

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Thanks 🙏 should get round to posting the next chapter in about a weeks time. Would be great to encourage others to look into this subject a little more and then hopefully they could join in posting more about it.

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England is the only place on the Earth to do this🤮🤮🤮 Just the phrase "forced adoption" is evil😈 I have a friend in England who knows young women who've had their babies ripped from them by these evil doers! They call it the cristal ball method🤮🤮🤮 Ripping babies away from young and poor mothers is a very sick and depraved thing to do. They are then paid by the gov't for each baby! I found this out from one of these mothers I met on fb. I even met a guy who helps them get their babies back. I would KILL anyone who as much as tried to take my baby away from me!!! Probably sell them into pedophile rings🤮🤮🤮 Happens a lot in the U.S. as well🤬 These monsters will pay for their evil deeds! Heathens!!👹

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Unfortunately plenty of countries take children away from parents without consent. Nonetheless, you are right, it's an abhorrent process and one which is definitely corrupt from judge to social worker and everyone in between. It's quite cliche to say this but I really do wonder how they sleep at night.
You would think that any parent being threatened with having their child removed would lay their life on the line, quite rightly, but what folk don't understand is the incremental way in which these horrible people creep into your life. Before you know it they have you and then blackmail you into doing what they say. I've covered that issue in a few of my blogs describing how my sister has been picked apart by these tactics. It's just horrible.

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I know it happens in many countries. Just the terms "cristal ball method" and "forced adoption" are pure British puke🤢🤮🤮 A few states in the U.S. (another pukey gov't🤮🤑🤑🤑), were picking up those terms a few years back. That's why they pick on young single mothers. They're easier to manipulate🤬 In France this doesn't yet exist, but with covaids bs it will very soon😥 So sorry for your sister😢 This guy I'd chatted with lived on an Island I think off of Spain. I can't remember his name😔 I'll look in your blogs for the story about her. Really hate this shit! In the U.S. this is how they love to seperate native Americans from their parents and to turn them white🤮

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I share your passion against this and the crystal ball you mentioned is such an open cheque book for them. I’ve seen with my own eyes how they blatantly lie in a court of supposed law. It makes me fume to think of what they have done and how they act so righteous while doing it. If things were right the majority of them would all be in jail. IMO I think the training they go through reframes them to believe what they are doing is right.

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God sees them and they won't escape judgement day🙏 With the clot shot I think they're getting close to that day😏👹

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Must be a soul-rotting existence for those who knowingly lie and corrupt the system. Hopefully some form of judgement will come one day.

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the Social Services crush and trample on the lives of innocent families, turning loving parents into criminals

It seems like simply being a loving parent is enough to be accused of criminal activity - parents who choose to educate, care for and raise from home... they automatically suspect.

Keep up the good fight.

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So many reasons nowadays to "justify" them invading our lives. You really do have to arm yourself with knowledge and be prepared to be brave in the face of the most scary situations. How it has been allowed to get like this is just crazy, but that's about right for the world we live in today.
Thanks for taking the time to leave your thoughts. Much appreciated 🙏

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When the criminals get in power, it's the decent people who suffer.

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It’s amazing how much corruption they manage to create! If I were on their side I’d actually be impressed. Shame they have to suck ass so much.

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I'm not on their side and I'm impressed with their devious and cunning plans - they make it their job to not be out-smarted. They have no soul, so their "smarts" is all they have left. But they can't outsmart the fires of hell.

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they make it their job to not be out-smarted

Very well put! I may use that in my next post 😎

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