Retirement is not always a bed of roses
So much is put into making our retirement work, it would be naive not to do so. Of course, being in the Silver Bloggers age group we would hope we are clever enough to think of all points, both positive and negative. Every prospective retiree I know puts effort into analysing life style wants and needs
But is any move permanent? Although we try to tick all our boxes at the time the reality is that there is always the possibility of a downside or two. We do not reach the retirement age without realising the unexpected happens. Life is not an ideal bed of roses all the time! Whatever happens we work out whether we stay where we are or decide on a home elsewhere. These decision are very personal.
Last year I wrote about a dear friend who thought she would retire in her large home positioned on the Brisbane River in a rural country area of Brisbane, but found out this was not what she wanted after all. The property was too big for her to keep maintaining on her own. After the passing of her husband several years ago she was single and wanted to be in the midst of the action with theatre, shops, art galleries, museum and coffee shops, etc and shifted into a unit located in a 7 storey unit building in inner Brisbane. She has been very happy living a socially active life never regretting her move.
But, this last week very heavy rain has been falling over Brisbane and unfortunately the Brisbane River is expanding more and more. Here is a photo my friend took on Friday as she sat nearby drinking her coffee realising she was in the midst of an evolving flood.

After 700 millimetre or 27.5 inches of rain over the weekend, there is water everywhere in inner Brisbane. The drains are so full they cannot clear quickly enough. This is the latest photo sent to me, of the grim picture view from my friend's unit who at this stage is out of harm's way of the flooding. Hopefully the water will not rise any higher and people's cars are safe.

My friend's car is still safe in the basement garage and she still has electricity which is more than what other fellow unit dwellers have. She is appreciative that she chose to live in a unit building 100 metres away from the Brisbane River.

Although the flooding might become more challenging for my friend she is not deterred from living in her chosen unit location in Brisbane city near the river. She sees the benefits definitely outweighing the negatives.
There is one thing I have learned as a retiree, we all get to work it out as we travel along the road of retirement.



The floods are terrible in Brisbane, my daughter lives there and can't get out or in from where they live, all the schools are closed as well, fortunately she works from home, she has her own business called "Impi Sportswear". Thank you @angiemitchell for sharing.
How lovely to have your daughter in Brisbane, what a great connection our countries have as so many South Africans live in Australia.
My little grandson is in grade 1 is at home today. His family are not in a flood zone as is his school. Some schools unfortunately are well and truly flooded out.
I remember Brisbane floods happening through the years and they are all very dramatic.
Your daughters business sounds interesting, I shall look it up. Love to you artywink.
Thank you @angiemitchell, I miss those little ones, hope to visit them soon.
Lots of love to you too @angiemitchell .
Covid has kept the world closed for a couple of years unfortunately, so opening it up again is more than exciting. x
That flooding looks scary! I agree with you about the importance of making the right decisions regarding retirement. A close friend of mine and her husband, retired over 900 km away from here, where all her family and friends are. They loved the new environment as it's in a stunning part of our country, but he had a massive stroke (he's only 64), mobility, speech etc all affected. Is back at home after being in a step-down facility for intensive rehab but she now has to care for him while he's recovering. But her whole support system is now 900km away! So, although it seemed like a dream retirement, it all changed in a split second!
It's making us reconsidering our plans of moving down the coast!
PS please can you add retirement as a tag in your post?
Silver-blond Lizzie
How hard for your friend to have her husband so affected by a terrible stroke and so far away. We think that we will always be well and healthy but unfortunately some things are beyond our control.
It must be very hard for you thinking and worrying about your friends, such a hopeless feeling.
And I have included retirement in my tag and thank you for the tip, I am learning all the time Silver-blond Lizzie. Love Silver Bronze x
Life is full of turns and twists. For me, my retirement is somewhat marred when I suffered from a slipped disc. Despite the pain, I try to enjoy my retirement life.
Oh no, how terrible as this injury is so painful. Wishing you a full recovery.
So glad you can look on the bright side of life Positively Silver, love your name.
Wishing you lots of happiness, Angie aka Silver Bronze. 💜
Luckily, I did acupuncture and that really help a lot. I do my exercises daily as prescribed by my therapist.
Is there a happy painless end in sight?
I have tried acupuncture and that helps tremendously.
So fabulous to hear Positively Silver💜.
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I hope the water subsided and no major damage occurred. I am sure your friend is still glad she did move. Too big a house becomes an anchor around your neck to maintain.
Floods seem to be getting more and more common across all corners of the globe.
You are so right @tengolotodo about the super storms, hurricanes and cyclones the world is experiencing and of course there are all the other natural disasters too. Does it have to do with man's negative impact on the Earth planet?
In my eyes 99.99% yes, but who knows...
Can't get better than that and yes one never knows when something will happen but sounds like you have control. I believe the we have the power to heal our body. Do you know about Donna Eden and body energy work?
She healed her body when traditional medicine could not. I do her 5 minute Energy Healing work out every morning. She is on YouTube.
I must admit that I have never heard of her. I have made a note of her name and will check her out in YouTube when I get up tomorrow!
Thank you for that.
I will interested to know what you think.
Oh, gosh! Those floods are terrible.
I think that's the best we can do, in a world where circumstances change so abruptly from one moment to the next.
I hope everything gets back to normal soon and the rains and floods stop and that your friend is safe.....
Acceptance is definitely the wiser option as this takes away the angst we can feel. It is not worth wondering why bad things happen to good people because it does. I always take them as lessons to learn.🌻