#FREEWRITE : NEVER JUDGE SOMEONE BY THEIR BLOG OR VLOG FEED

almost 5 years ago

Everyone who blogs or vlogs experiences the same:

WHERE DO I / YOU DRAW THE LINE?

Everybody shows, tells or talks about what he or she likes to share. For a blogger thats almost always way less than for a vlogger. I wish I had the guts but I didnt find a jar or bottle with “guts” anywhere yet so I stick to blogging for now.

But please never judge someone blogging or vlogging by their feed. Because as i said before everybody shows what her or she wants to show.
I show the things I LIKE , the things i am PROUD of, the proof of life, the achievements but never a full monty NSFW kinda post. Same for the kiddoos, i try to keep them a bit mysterious so that when they are all grown up they can decide for themselves if the want to be social, or Steemers for that matter.

Also in my feed you dont see that our family is battleling cancer, that we suffer and are sad, that we also strive to do better , earn money and give back.

WHY????

Well we ( read I !) want my STEEMIT LIBRARY OFF LIFE TO BE ONE WITH HAPPY MOMENTS, the pain and harteache, i Will do offline in a private moment.
We all have our own struggles and curves life throws at us. So dont envy others by the blogged feed, just blog. And as much as you want us to know, we wont ask anything cause we know you have a hidden private FEED too !

Let me know DO YOU TELL AND SHOW ALL ?

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18 comments

@wwwiebe 74

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Much truth to this. Everyone has their own story that we don't know anything about at all. The homeless guy sitting on the corner must be lazy, right? Or maybe his mother was a drug addict when she was pregnant with him and he suffered a miserable child hood he couldn't get out of. Woman with bruises on her face? Must have been beaten by a spouse. Or maybe she's an MMA fighter who just won a bout.

Just the same we shouldn't judge people by their social media. There is more than enough darkness in the world. I like my feed to be positive too, despite how I may feel sometimes.

Thanks for sharing. This post really hit home.

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Yes me too , a positive feed helps me and I always think there is always someone having it worse than me .
So indeed never judge but that’s also hard

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@smasssh 67

almost 5 years ago

No-one here and on any other platform tells and shows all.
And for that matter I believe some even tell other truths and stories about themselves (and/or want to make us believe), being richer, stronger, more beautiful etc etc than in reality.

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

I never show anything that’s a lie but I try to keep it positive ook op de Dagen die klote zijn.

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@barracudadiaries 59

almost 5 years ago

I try to tell honestly. That is...some days I feel like ‘it’s my blog...my therapy...it’s all coming out!’
Some days more ‘don’t be a downer...just be cool!’

But ultimately, my life with blogs is very much ‘it’s about you...just write what you’re feeling & what you feel like sharing’ on any given day.

I have a very bad habit of maybe sharing too much. I am, in real life, super socially awkward & not ok around others (made worse by having a retail food job & having to be ‘on’ all day!) so I tend to let it all out on my blogs & social media feeds. (And here I go again!)

But whether you feel like sharing all or nothing, it is your ‘blog/vlog’ & you are the writer/director/producer so what you say goes!!

I love this post!

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Sorry for the late comment but wow thanks I love that you like it. And I agree we are the director so than all goes and it doesn’t matter what others think just always be civil.

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@riverflows 80

almost 5 years ago

I am sorry to hear that someone in your family is not well. It's sweet that your focus is on the positive. I am sure that your readers would not mind hearing about the hard stuff too. Xx

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

I know and I even know a free accounts that have a huge help when being honest about greef or hurt in their life while they blog about it, but maybe in the future I will . Untill than I try to be open minded.

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@steemitboard 66

almost 5 years ago

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

I love it thank you

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Is there a badge for the amount of followers?
I got 2500 todayyyyyy whoop whoop

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@vibesforlife 65

almost 5 years ago

very lovely thought you have here.Bo point of getting envy or judgemental because of some one's feed, just keep blogging:)

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Yes being judgemental behind a screen is very easy and unfair !

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@helpiecake 55

almost 5 years ago

Hello!

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Much love to you from all of us at @helpie!
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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Thank you @vibesforlife I love that you picked me

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@owasco 72

almost 5 years ago

Oh goodness no! But I do show and tell the things that are bothering me sometimes, and for some reason those posts earn me the most. That is a good thing about steem though, how folks rally to fellow steemians in need.

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@brittandjosie 76

almost 5 years ago

Ok that’s great so maybe I need to do more of those blogs and earn more hahahah thank you

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almost 5 years ago

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