Daily Challenge: #MomLife Week 30[ENG – ESP] || Escogiendo al padre de tus hijos - Choosing your child father

Hola a todas las mamis de @Motherhoodđź’•

Hello to all the moms of @Motherhoodđź’•

Inicio la semana 30 de este, mi #challenge favorito. Una semana mas con temas interesantes dirigidos a que todas las mamis de #Hive cuenten sus historias y experiencias. Ya hemos pasado por muchos temas importantes, esta semana hablaremos de los padres y me parece genial porque ya sea que tienes o tuviste un padre especial, o tienes un esposo que es un padre genial, este papel es fundamental en el crecimiento de nuestros tesoros. Sea bien o mal, hay que hablar (eso digo yo) y reflexionar que es lo más importante.
I start week 30 of this, my favorite #challenge. One more week with interesting topics aimed at all the #Hive moms telling their stories and experiences. We have already gone through many important issues, this week we will talk about parents and I think it is great because whether you have or had a special father, or you have a husband who is a great father, this role is fundamental in the growth of our treasures. Be it good or bad, you have to talk (that's what I say) and reflect on what is most important.

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Tengo que comenzar recordando un poco mi historia, mi esposo ha sido mi único novio y ya tenemos más de la mitad de nuestras vidas juntos. Este año cumplimos nuestro 7mo aniversario de bodas y nuestros 17 años juntos, nos parece eterno pero la verdad el tiempo ha pasado volando. Conocí a Marcelo en 2004 cuando cursábamos 9no grado aunque habíamos estudiado toda la vida en el mismo colegio pero en secciones diferentes, coincidimos y nació el amor jeje. Nos hicimos novios y desde ahí estamos a pesar de nuestra distancia y peleas, siempre terminábamos juntos. Superamos muchas cosas, por ejemplo el se fue al exterior a jugar pelota y tuvo fama y dinero, yo estudiaba en la universidad y creo que hasta ese momento no sabíamos que iba a suceder con nosotros.
I have to start by remembering my story a bit, my husband has been my only boyfriend and we already have more than half of our lives together. This year we celebrate our 7th wedding anniversary and our 17 years together, it seems eternal but the truth is that time has flown by. I met Marcelo in 2004 when we were in 9th grade although we had studied all our lives at the same school but in different sections, we agreed and love was born hehe. We became boyfriends and from there we are despite our distance and fights, we always ended up together. We overcame many things, for example he went abroad to play ball and had fame and money, I was studying at university and I think that until then we did not know what was going to happen to us.

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Siendo sincera, tenía mis dudas sobre nuestra relación y nuestro futuro, creía que estábamos teniendo una relación de mentiras y que ambos íbamos en sentidos contrarios. Yo pensaba que en cualquier momento el no regresaría, o que yo debía ir a donde estaba el para poder estar juntos. Por un tiempo deje de imaginarnos casados y con hijos porque todo apuntaba a que nuestra relación se debía mantener a distancia. A pesar de eso yo creo que nunca me imagine con alguien más ni nada por el estilo, estoy y he estado muy enamorada de el. Así que básicamente no tuve muchos problemas para escoger al papá de mis hijos aunque me pregunto: eso se escoge? Si se tenía que escoger yo no lo hice o lo hice muy bien jajaja.
To be honest, I had my doubts about our relationship and our future, I believed that we were having a false relationship and that we were both going in opposite directions. I thought that at any moment he would not return, or that I should go to where he was to be together. For a while I stopped imagining ourselves married and with children because everything suggested that our relationship should be kept at a distance. Despite that I think I never imagined myself with someone else or anything like that, I am and have been very much in love with him. So basically I didn't have much trouble choosing the father of my children, although I ask myself: is that chosen? If you had to choose I didn't do it or I did it very well hahaha.

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Creo firmemente en el amor y en destino que Dios tiene escrito para nosotros. Creo que Dios nos cruzó en el camino en el momento perfecto de nuestras vidas y nos ha dado las herramientas correctas para vencer tantos obstáculos. Yo no escogí a Marcelo como papá de mis hijos, yo lo escogí para amarlo, adorarlo, respetarlo, acompañarlo, apoyarlo, crecer, aprender, vivir y soñar. Con el tiempo el se fue convirtiendo en mas y mas, se convirtió en mi mayor sueño y mi mayor esperanza, con el tiempo pasó a ser parte de mi vida, de ese futuro que me imaginaba y a pesar de todos los altibajos, llegó el momento de unir nuestras vidas en matrimonio. En este punto de nuestras vidas estábamos completamente seguros el uno del otro, tanto el como yo sabíamos que nuestro futuro de ahí en adelante seria mucho mas especial y el amor nos hizo no dudar jamás. Por eso digo con toda la seguridad que mis hijas tienen al mejor papá del mundo, el más cariñoso, protector, valiente, inteligente, divertido, amoroso, que yo no pude tener más suerte de tenerlo en mi vida, y ahora me encargo de cuidarlo, valorarlo cada día y recordarle lo importante y especial que es para mi y mis hijas. Papi, te volvería a escoger una y mil veces más....
I firmly believe in the love and destiny that God has written for us. I believe that God crossed our path at the perfect time in our lives and has given us the right tools to overcome so many obstacles. I did not choose Marcelo as the father of my children, I chose him to love him, adore him, respect him, accompany him, support him, grow, learn, live and dream. Over time he became more and more, he became my greatest dream and my greatest hope, over time he became part of my life, of that future that I imagined and despite all the ups and downs, the moment arrived. to unite our lives in marriage. At this point in our lives we were completely sure of each other, both he and I knew that our future from then on would be much more special and love made us never doubt. That is why I say with all the security that my daughters have the best father in the world, the most affectionate, protective, brave, intelligent, funny, loving, that I could not have been more lucky to have him in my life, and now I take care of him. , value him every day and remind him how important and special he is for me and my daughters. Daddy, I would choose you a thousand times more ....

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Un día más de esta #semana30 queridas mamis, un gusto estar aquí con ustedes y formar parte de esta comunidad. Nos leemos en la próxima.
One more day of this #30week dear moms, a pleasure to be here with you and to be part of this community. We will read each other in the next one.

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Nothing can be more amazing like having an amazing husband. The role of a good father and a husband cannot be overemphasized. Happy for u. Am also a mom of 2 with a lovely husband

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It's good that we're from the same team and I'm not the only lucky one. I want it to always be like that for both of us and thank you very much for commenting.

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