RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

This evening, we will look into the expected new and old walk in relationship/marriage. There are certain steps needed when you want to engage into relationship or when you are engaged. These steps are what we need as we are entering into relationship or we are in one as we advance in them. We want to look at the thing that should be expected in the early stage of our relationship and it matures, what are the things that will emerge.....

In the early stage of our relationship, what are the thing expected? Things*

  1. Openness:- One of the ingredients needed of us is Openness. Because, this is what set the foundation of relationship/marriage to Being open and clear over all matters with your partner.

  2. Togetherness-: Togetherness: is an instrumental ingredients that stirs up a relationship most especially when new, because it mades interaction between the two involved strong and drives a sense of commitment and concentration most especially to the Female on the relationship.

  3. Acknowledgments-: Acknowledgment is a vital drive that runs a relationship. Because, when you acknowledge your partner in your place, It gives the knowing of their involvement in your life. Learn to acknowledge your partner/Spouse over yourself.

Before going further, just to add to togetherness, at this point, there is need to be in touch as long as possible, because, it stirs the natural sense and how well you appreciate them in our lives. For every relationship, there is a process of its growth and it growth is on how well you have started or it's being nurtured.

Responsibility rises as relationship also matures and get Older. There is need for development in the Psychological procession of both and this has to do with knowing how to handle circumstances and conditions that come by.

In an Older relationship, you can still enjoy the same manner of Fun and environment as you enjoyed when the relationship was just starting. Responsibility brings change of situation and circumstances that may affect the usual way of relationship chemistry. For instance, a guy that will always call you for lunch when you guys started but has been promoted to the extend you don't see him until dead night, how do you handle this?

On a momentarily basis, not stalking him, you reach via phone to see how He is doing, ask what are the difficulty he is facing. Now this is it, know that the way you start a relationship is not the way the relationship will continue. It will change over time as the two are advancing.

This is basically for those who are Married
Please, do not starve your spouse of Sexual affection even when you guys have differences. Be it the guy is Pastor or not, do not please! And this is to those of us who will are about to and those of us who will later also.

Honour your husband and wife in the secret permit me to use the word, no matter what Relationship are orchestrated by God to achieve His purpose of himself on the Earth. So, don't just think you are just playing having boyfriend.

Let this ring to our mind, that relationship we call small things are to bring to pass certain influences upon the Earth. So, the kind of relationship you engage into bring a force of a kind of life to be establish upon the Earth. Marriage/Relationship is likened unto Christ on Love with His bride and longs to be with His Church as it's written in the books of Songs of Solomon

So what makes a relationship to start young and to mature and could be walked on the Old is only in the advancement of Psychologys of the individual involved...... The Sovereign of all is that whatever way you sustain your relationship is to be influenced by your realm.

You are a Spirit, so influence it via the Spirit first Orchestrate it in God and set in accordance with God's will. Don't build your relationship base of many saying but base on counsel from the beyond that orchestrated it.

Give yourself to the relationship, trusting the Lord alone for the reward. The Reward of you is in God not in your spouse. So don't always expect appreciation at all times. The Lord is one who appreciates you before men do.



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