Assuming the comfortable position of being the victim in every situation will only keep you in a space of limitation and resentment.
No olvidemos la frase ¨ayúdate que yo te ayudaré ¨.
You just believe that you cannot find the solution to what is happening to you. You stop the growth that can give you facing the situation. While it is true; that there are extreme situations in which it only remains to trust in God, that he will help us, and we must flood our Being with FAITH.
Let's not forget the phrase ¨help yourself, I will help you
Si te gusta mantenerte **en tu posición cómoda de víctima**. Así es!, posición cómoda, de no hacer nada! De quedarte atado a tu miedo!. Porque crees que te ha tocado difícil en esta vida, porque no viviste bajo el hogar que soñaste, porque tuviste una pérdida que marco tu toma de decisiones, porque has tenido situaciones sobrevenidas que solo te dejan un mal sabor, y muchas excusa más!!... Te Quiero recordar que el momento de crecer y cambiar la historia lo tienes tú. Es tu vida!.
In the dynamics of a home, each individual is moving towards their growth and independence from an early age, at least that is how parents aspire. Each being reaches maturity as it becomes capable of meeting its basic needs. Every time you face, experiment, decide, make mistakes, and focus again on your well-being to solve; you will get more personal growth.
If you like to stay ** in your comfortable victim position **. That's right !, comfortable position, to do nothing! To stay tied to your fear! Because you think that it has been difficult for you in this life, because you did not live under the home you dreamed of, because you had a loss that marked your decision-making, because you have had situations that only leave a bad taste, and many more excuses !! ... I want to remind you that the time to grow and change history is yours. It's your life!.
Of course, there are beings who love to play the role of The Super Heroes. For me, they are just manipulators, who like to create a state of dependency for you, for them to fill in their gaps. If so, their dynamics consist of listening to your situations, making them look bigger, reminding you every day, painting you an external help that only they are capable of giving you, and giving you a half-solution from their perspective; but above all to remind you at every moment that they helped you, and that you need their help
Even if you feel vulnerable to what is happening to you, the best solution is always in you. Only you know what really makes you happy, how you will feel comfortable and what your limits are. It's not about not asking for help; the issue is to face, grow and not create dependency, because only you know your perspective on happiness.
When you begin to love, and from your own love you trust yourself. Your qualities emerge, and with them the solutions to your situation will emerge ... Do different things, change your routine, turn your beautiful gaze the other way, take your beloved body to another place. You are your own owner .. Shake yourself !! and do not let yourself sink into the pessimism of being a victim.
When you live from the position of Being Responsible, you take control of your situation. And you have the power to change what you don't like, without limits.!!
Suelta y recoge la soga!
Release and collect the rope!
As the great teacher Sidarta heard it in his moment of deep meditation. After searching in so many spaces for the truth he needed, without losing faith that he was capable of finding his peace ... He listened in the distance, when a father and his son talk on the boat, while the father taught him how to fish. Let go and pick up the rope!
We are responsible for making ourselves happy, for letting go and picking up that rope towards others or in different situations! We are responsible for covering our needs for: Self-love, Food, Clothing, Recreation, Rest, to mention a few. Although there is a legal framework in this regard, the responsibilities of parents and marriage; it is healthy and correct to feel responsible for giving yourself what you want. From a pleasant afternoon of tranquility to your greatest Wish.
It's you, it's your life, feel responsible for it !!. By loving yourself entirely, you will feel responsible for sleeping the time you need, for eating the way you want, for making that coffee, tea or juice, just how you like it !! Pleasing yourself and taking responsibility for your physical and mental health is your big job for the day! Raising your vibration to infect others with good vibes, is your challenge
Asume desde tu Amor propio una actitud Responsable, llena tu vida de Confianza, ella te hará libre!
Assume a Responsible attitude from your own Love, fill your life with Trust, it will set you free.
Gracias por llegar conmigo hasta aquí!!.
Thanks for getting here with me!!