My brother - what do you think

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The more I give - the angrier he gets ....................


I was 11 years old when my brother was born. He was 14 when our parents died. As elder brother I cared for him. While he was a teenager, his needs were expensive, but I indulged him. Designer jeans; Nike shoes, electronic games and always the latest smart phone.

It was hard for me, as I have worked since high school. After 2 years I started a business by working nights and weekends and it grew until I could leave my job. It did not make me wealthy, but I would have been comfortable, if I was not so involved in keeping my brother comfortable and satisfying his every need.


He is now 29 years old and still plays the guilt trip, claiming I owe it to him, that mom and dad took care of me, but he did not have them from when he was still a child. He keeps throwing in my face that I have no rights, for I was privileged and only his life matters now.

His latest demand; that I pay for his operation for him to become a trans female. Not only are the op and treatments expensive, he wants a complete new wardrobe, with all accessories!

I have a feeling he is taking advantage of me and that I am not doing him a favour by indulging his sense of entitlement.

Am I wrong?

Am I being an unfeeling bastard?

What do you think?



If you agree with him, I cannot help thinking it means your sense of self-esteem and self-respect are at an extreme low.

If you feel I should stop indulging his tantrums and try some tough-love so that he matures and becomes responsible for his own life...

then I must ask you....

If I should do so for my own brother, why should I not do the same for your brother or son or daughter? Why should I have to indulge their petty tantrums?

Why should you? Should you pay for my brother? If not, why are you tolerating the me-me selfish culture of sons, daughters, brothers sisters of non-deserving people you do not even know?

Why should your tax be used to support them? Why should tax money be used in universities to pamper them, when we know it is only exacerbating the situation and in the end, only about to destroy the lives of all people like you, who work and care and try to make this a better world?

Wake up, it is time you think of your own needs so that you can have a decent family you can be proud of.

Tell my 'brother' to go to hell - for that is where he is trying to take you and your loved ones.

PS: The story of my 'brother' is an imaginary one, made up so as to paint a vivid picture for you to see how you are being taken advantage of, out of your concern and wish to see yourself as a decent, caring and tolerant person.

I hope it has helped you see what you are, in truth, allowing yourself to become. Please stop wasting your life for those parasites who not only are using you, but who also show as plainly as they can that they hate you.

Stand up for yourself and your loved ones. You have a right to happiness!




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Αυτή η ιστορία με τα αδέρφια δυστυχώς συμβαίνει καθημερινά...
Δεν ξέρω γιατί μας έλκουν άτομα που ουσιαστικά μας μισούν μας αντιπαθούν....
Πραγματικά ακόμα ψάχνω Το γιατί...

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I istoria einai aplos gia na eleftheroso tois skeseis afton pou pistevoun tous globalists me ta psemmata tous (san paradeigma, me to black lives matter kai alla tetoia)

Kanenas den ehei dikaioma to na apaitisi thysies gia ekoinous - mono emeis ehoume dikaioma to na prosferome kati tetio

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Agree don't let them use you up.

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