DO NOT LET THEIR OPINION DEFINE YOU

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Sometimes we are too scared to do things that we love and that sets our soul on fire because we are scared of what people would say or think. This has limited our ability and strength towards some things in life. We have slowed down on our career, stopped a relationship with people we love, stopped a business and this is all because of an opinion state out of spite and hatred.

We need to push this fear aside and do whatever makes us happy. When friends and people makes fun of us because we are following our passion, we need to avoid them because it shows they are not the ones we need in our life. When they make us feel bad by doing what we love the most, they are not worthy of being called friends.

If they do not support what you are doing please put them out of your life and remember that you come first before any person. Anyone who is in your life and do not support you is not meant to be,please avoid them like plague. Stay far away from people like this because they will bring nothing but toxicity to your life.

People's opinion do not matter in your life, your opinion is the only one that counts. If you allow people dictate your happiness then you will be miserable for a long period of time. Never rely on hearsay say, rather live on what you need and say.

Life is too damn short to seek validation from people who do not matter. Always be courageous and strong in the face of big decisions. Push asides all doubt and freaking go for what you want and only this will make you happy. Do not let their facial expressions or innuendos scare you from doing what is right by you. Let them know their opinion is nothing to your own. You matter when it comes to your life's event.

Making yourself happy is the best freedom you can have. Do not let their opinion make you into their own version of you but let your courage be the best version of yourself. Trust me you will be so happy with yourself and everything will turn out well.

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@swiftcash 64

almost 5 years ago

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almost 5 years ago

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@boomerang 53

almost 5 years ago

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@majowonline 55

almost 5 years ago

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@loistargarien 52

almost 5 years ago

I feel identified with your post the truth I stay away from the woman I still love for these same reasons today I understand this as you explain it but it has been a long time since she has a new partner and although we have talked she would like to return to try one more time and leave everything behind but you have that problem they will say, what their relatives and the relatives of the current couple will think. It is a dilemma in which she does not find an exit because she is closed to seeing things as they should be for her happiness as you mention it in your post

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@pencroff 43

almost 5 years ago

Life is too damn short to seek validation from people who do not matter. Always be courageous and strong in the face of big decisions.

This is a big true!

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@rubaet 72

almost 5 years ago

Yeah i will look at it, thanks for your comment

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@tomlee 71

almost 5 years ago

What people say or think about us does not really count. What counts most is what we think of ourselves. We shouldn't live our life trying to please everyone but rather, we should always go for what we want irrespective of what others think. I'm not saying that we should regard other people's opinion; what I'm simply saying is that our personal opinions should count more.

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@lokiyngling 69

almost 5 years ago

I am @themarkymark

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@denis03037 25

almost 5 years ago

MUITO BOM

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@vinay1999 45

almost 5 years ago

@rubaet,yes it is 100%true

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almost 5 years ago

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@cosmicguru 25

almost 5 years ago

Nice post...

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@esthersanchez 71

almost 5 years ago

This is very significant for me. I have found that sometimes just by getting away from toxic people, even your health improves! Thanks for sharing!

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@arcange 79

almost 5 years ago

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@anthonyadavisii 73

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Flagged for tag abuse. #steemleo is for investing only content.

I don't care to give a warning as I think this extreme bid botted motivational talk nonsense has done and overdone by the likes of @chbartists.

Don't think this content merits the rewards you have appropriated from the reward pool

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@rubaet 72

almost 5 years ago

Didn't know about the tag stuff , so tag removed from the post. And about reward pool

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this contents merits the rewards according to you right ?? this a ring who run by a person named @richatvns @xcaliper @slotplayer and many more . I think my post more fresh and qualityful than them . And i didn't get free upvote , i paid for it .. also my post meet their[bidbot] TOS .

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@anthonyadavisii 73

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Thanks! I'll resolve your entry in the database.

We've dealt with that group at least a couple times so I wouldn't be terribly surprised to find they are abusing the bots again. Appreciate you bringing this to our attention!

As for your content, I've seen worse use of bots for sure. _{Such as from the group you noted.}

It seems good sentiment I suppose but, in my opinion, it's a bit too cliche for my liking.

I mean I've so many permutations of "Don't listen to what others say, follow your heart" notions and this one doesn't seem to possess any novel or unique quality that would make it particularly engaging.

I hope you are receptive to constructive criticism as this article seem like they came from a cookie cutter motivational speech.

Even if you are incapable of altering the substance of your writing, there is much you can do in way of aesthetics. Add more images for the context, divider images, and maybe even through in some div tags with pull-left or pull-right.

There is a lot you can do to add depth to your content so critics like me will go elsewhere. There have been a few posts I would have otherwise flagged but did not because of the attention to those details.

All in all, I think you can do better than thais with a bit of effort and you absolutely should if you going to be placing your content on trending.

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@rubaet 72

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Thanks for the suggestion , i will take care of it next time .

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@coininstant 69

almost 5 years ago

anthony starting spreading slander in my blog so i am flagging anyone i see linked to him!

This is why he says stuff like that, he is a bidbot abuser and he gets paid by @themarkynark! he is flagged forever now as long as I am, or until he realizes and retracts his comment from my blog, and never bugs me again!

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@robinmmthompson -1

almost 5 years ago

@anthonyadavisii & @themarkymark are ignorant, they don't seem to understand what a real threat is! Anthony went on @coin's blog and slandered him, we ll know marky is ignot=rant and is foreign, and does not know english that well, but anthony,=== shame on you! Get a life and quit spreading lies!
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almost 5 years ago

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@anthonyadavisii 73

almost 5 years ago

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@organduo 73

almost 5 years ago (Edited)

Where is content about investing? Steemleo tag is for posts about investing only. To avoid being flagged please don't abuse the tag.

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almost 5 years ago

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almost 5 years ago

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