Transactional vs Relational Culture - Which Is Better?

I think in life sometimes we ourselves set difficult choices for ourselves when in reality this should not be so. Without a doubt I feel humanity itself is exposed to the limitation of label and hence most people often chose to be relational because it's about the sentiment for them, it's about who they know who they want and who would be appreciative of them when they show kindness to them. But then we can be more than this.

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My take on this is that the transactional and the relational approaches are one and the same, the actual issue is the focus of the relationship. If we focus on objects, services and coin, then we're seeing other people merely as conduits to get the stuff we want, because our relationship is with the stuff, not with the human beings behind them. But exchanging knowledge and emotions with people is also a transaction, only on a different level and with a different mindset.

My view is that cryptos are actually offering us enormous potential to shift this focus by dismantling the concept of money, the most powerful and far-reaching narrative we have, and revealing the true value beneath all words and concepts: Faith and Trust. The more people realize that every relationship is based on energy and that every transaction depends on mutual confidence, the more wholehearted our world will become. I feel that process is well underway, and that this year has been a huge accelerator for that shift.

Cultures define us in a certain way, but we are one consciousness, that's what I've learned, we only use different language to learn the same concept. Laughter is the same, hate is the same. Animal language and thought is universal, for that reason I don't think it's something that defines you because you grew up in the USA.

With respect to the analysis in general I liked it very much, while reading I remembered just this, since in the Wottuja indigenous community, one of the things that does not exist is the word forgiveness, nor thanks, for what it means that they act forgetting the past.

That would be a very valuable practice to sustain ourselves only by giving energy to others.

Adiwa!

I have not lived or visited your country, the United States, but I think that even with the observations you make to its system in general, it is a good country. I think that there is no need to discard or dismiss what they already have, but to enrich it with more love, compassion and goodwill, and this can be achieved by educating the new generations and by carrying out independent initiatives, whose core is love, and not any ideology, philosophy or religion. Replicating how Mother Earth loves us without limits and without expecting any retribution, should be the guide for this type of activity. Your post makes us reflect on many things that we usually ignore. A big greeting and blessings to you.

No he vivido ni visitado a tu país, a los Estados Unidos, pero creo que aún con las observaciones que haces a su sistema en general, es un buen país. Pienso que no hay necesidad de desechar o desestimar lo que ya tienen, sino enriquecerlo con más amor, compasión y buena voluntad, y esto puede lograrse mediante la educación a las nuevas generaciones y a la realización de iniciativas independientes, cuyo núcleo sea el amor, y no una ideología, filosofía o religión alguna. El replicar el como la Madre Tierra nos ama sin límites y sin esperar retribución alguna, debería ser la guía para este tipo de actividades. Tu post hace que reflexionemos sobre muchas cosas que por lo general obviamos. Un gran saludo y bendiciones para tí.