A Simple Guide To Peaceful Home. Concluding Part

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THINGS THAT WILL NOT MAKE OUR MARRIAGE WORK

Am so sorry for the late continuation due to some personal reasons.

You can also read the previous part.
Part 1here

Part 2here

Like i said previously, that there are many things that would not make our marriage work successfully. If we continue doing it.
I will highlight it and discourse it little because i don't want to take much of your time.

J. Gossiping (Women) this always common on women. And Man persistence in rebuking or complaining on an issue. Stop that.

K. Lark of appreciation of little things or great things. Both should always be grateful or thankful in something is done for each others.

L. Malice Keeping. This also common among women, when your husband offend you and instead of you call him and tell him what he did you will prefer keeping the malice. Is not really common in man. So, if you want a successful marriage, then stop keeping malice.

M. Refusal to take advice (Man) / correction (Woman). I can say 80percent of man don't take advice from their wives. Because that Ego of am the head of this family. Man I pity you. Being the head of the house doesn't mean you can not take advice from your wife. And women, take the correction.

N. Developing Hater for one another. This must not happen in your home. No mater what happen in your home you must not hate one another for once. Both of you should always correct each other in love.

O. Allowing Grudges to Linger. Consider one another thought when making plans. Man don't just believe everything you think is right.

P. Change of Character. Very common in both. There's good behavior in both of you which you consider in your courtship before getting married. And when both of you got married and suddenly things just change. Why both of you don't keep to that good character and enjoy your home in companionship.

Q. Retaliation and Spirit of Revenge. People says, in relationship, Love covereth all mistakes. If both (Husband & wife) don't allow love and unity to rain in your home and that is when you retaliate to each other. When you retaliate to your partner then you're inviting the spirit of revenge to your home. Man, overlook all wrong things at home.

R. Evil Imaginations. This mostly common to women when their foundation love is faded. Truly, women do have 90% love for their husband and they don't want to share their Man with any other women. But when they noticed their love has been sharing with another women then they begin to imaging evil in their mind. So, please women, instead of imaging evil, start praying for your husband to change in his wrong doing. So both of you can have everlasting joy in your home.

S. Wrought and Anger. Anger doesn't settled any matter at home but implicate the situations. When one is rising in he/she temper then one need to be submissive or calm. Man, control your anger in your home and women be submissive to your husband.

T. Making Report to Outsiders. I can say this is mostly common in women. Women and Man don't allow third party in your home. When things is going wrong then settle it amicably instead of reporting one another to your friends. Stop seeking an advice from anyone, they have nothing to offer your home than they want your home to brake up.

U. Too Much Expectation From Your Spouse. Don't expect much from one another. Especially man, don't expect much from your wife. Because God has made them the way they are and man is to correct them in every areas. Too much expectations can brake up your sweet home.

U. Evil Association/ Friendship. I don't say you should not associate with anyone but be wise and be watchful in who you associate yourself with.

To be Continued on WHAT WOMEN MUST DO TO WIN BACK THEIR HOME.

Value your marriage always, value each other always

Thank you for your time

REMAIN BLESSED, SHALOM

Always Remember To Pray For Your Love Once.

Still Me, @Princefm.