Child resistance when told to learn by parents

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Child resistance when told to learn by parents


Hello Steemian.
I manage an education course that teaches elementary to junior high school kids. My students have different backgrounds viewed from the profession of parents. Ranging from employees to teachers. Over the years, I saw the fact that every child will have their own uniqueness.
We know that every child is the hope of every parent. Every parent hopes to have a child who grows up to be a good person. Children who study hard have care and are responsible. Therefore, many parents who try to provide a variety of academic and non-academic skills are not exempt from the teachers who are daily assigned to teach students.
The teachers at the school try to give knowledge to the students. When they return home they are still obliged to teach the children. The glory of working in school must still be responsible for the education of children.
But unfortunately many teachers who succeed in teaching at school are not followed by success at home. many children do not feel like being taught by their mothers even though their profession is a teacher. many teachers who have succeeded in getting students to excel at school, won various competitions but had difficulty teaching their own children. Even many fathers or mothers complain about how difficult it is to teach their own children, while at school all the students they teach are very easy to follow the instructions and delivery of material.

Causative factors


Child resistance when told to learn by parents is a form of minor rebellion on children. This will certainly become a bigger problem if the solution is not sought early.
To be able to solve this problem, of course we must understand the problem by finding out why children tend to refuse to be taught by mothers or fathers.

1. Running out of energy.
Old people who are tired of working all day will come home with drained energy. The loss of energy will certainly be a problem if you have to face the learning difficulties of children. It may be that when accompanying a child who is a parent, falls asleep. If the child knows this happens continuously then the child will feel unaccompanied by parents. They will certainly not tend to learn or will choose to be taught by others.

2. Easy emotions
Jaunty parents who are easily provoked emotions. Especially when accompanying children to learn. Children are not easy to understand the explanations given so feel excited. As a result, parents get angry easily and children tend to refuse to study again.

3. Children know what will happen
The habit of parents angry when teaching children to make children feel victims and only be blamed continuously. They already know when to learn and do not understand parents will only be angry. As a result, children feel useless learning with their father or mother.

4. Different explanations
learning material is always developing. Every year there is a development of subject matter. Parents who do not follow the development of naughty children will certainly find it difficult to teach children. They only teach as they used to learn while the lessons faced by children are different. This is a problem when children feel that what their parents teach is not the same as what teachers teach at school

How to resolve


After we know the problem, we will mda to overcome the problem. Here are some things that can be done to overcome the resistance of children learning with parents.

1. Accompany children with enough energy.
If we come home from work, the child asks to study, then we ask for a short time to leave. After a short while we can teach them with enough energy.

2. Patient
when dealing with children we need to be patient. make them as children who need good help. don't get angry easily. If the child still does not understand using props to be more, already understood.

3. Follow the subject matter
Parents must be willing to follow the development of subject matter in order to explain properly.
We can read the textbooks that children use so we can know better. Sometimes what parents learn is far behind.

4. Using private tutor services
If the child's difficulties are still not resolved, communicate with the teacher at school or bring a private teacher home.

Thus all my writing this time may be useful for all of us.

Thank you for reading my post. I hope you enjoy it.



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