Walking Off The Matrix Edge: An Update On Progress

in homesteading •  last year  (edited)


A month ago I posted about my desire to work on the land, with animals, on sustainable projects etc. I received positive and encouraging feedback and a number of excellent suggestions. This is a follow-up post with an update as to how things have developed.

I'm listing some of the links I received by way of suggestions below as they are very good resources:


I paid the £20 fee and signed up for WorldWide Opportunities on Organic Farms (wwoof.org.uk). This lists over 500 places in the UK alone where one can volunteer in exchange for board, lodging and an education in how the Great Outdoors works. Browsing through, I came across a listing that I really liked and was seriously considering. Located in the SW of Wales, the description was attractive and the tone welcoming:

"We've fallen in love and bought our farm in 2018. It is located in a beautiful little valley, with its own stream, forest, with closest beach 4.5 miles away and not far from the picturesque town of Cardigan. Our location is truly in the middle of nowhere - we only have one close neighbour and there is no public transport in close proximity to the farm. Main farmhouse was built in 1805 but first mentioning of the farm was in documents from 1605 so be prepared to meet some rather ancient ghosts!"

"We've only started our "farming" adventure so there is a lot to do and learn! Our goal is to be as independent and sustainable as possible. So far we have our own source of water, little orchard, vegetable plots and six lovely chickens. The biggest job ahead of us is to prepare and clear the land so we can create bigger orchard, use it to grow more vegetables and fruits and in the future use it to home more animals. We also would like to recreate old ponds so one of the jobs is to clear and redirect the stream. Currently big part of our fields is used to grow grass and this year, hopefully at the end of June, we will be collecting our second lot of hay. It is hard but very satisfying job and we would very much appreciate a helpful pair of hands in this period."

"We are a small family of two humans, a large lurcher puppy, two cats and six chickens, but we have plenty of room and heart to welcome and host whoever would like to come and visit."


However, something else was to come up instead and 'save' me from a period of picturesque-internetlessness in the rural backwaters of Wales. I would've been completely cut off from the blockchain had I gone!

....no BARK after all:

My sister (@tigerrkg) forwarded my post (linked above and here) to a friend, D. D got in touch with me and after a short email ping-pong, I had a Skype meeting with her and her partner, S.

D and S have a 6 - 7 acre setup in the hills overlooking the Algarve coast, in SW Portugal. They are renovating some old buildings to turn into a retreat center with a focus on healing. The land has three sources of fresh water and they grow much of their own food. D & S moved to the area just under two years ago, drawn as they were to settle there after their own many wanderings and adventures.


Our meeting went very well. I felt an ease of communication and an alignment of spiritual / esoteric principles and values. It ended with a warm and open-armed invitation for me to visit and volunteer for a spell. I in turn stated that I would set my definite sights on going over around the time of the Autumn Equinox, approximately mid-late September.


After the uncertainty of stepping out into the unknown, handing and receiving notices for job and accommodation, I now have something concrete in front of me. More than simply having something concrete, I have the satisfaction of knowing this is something that I really want to do. It is aligned with my intentions (1) no longer to exchange my time and energy for activities I feel reluctant / forced to do (most 'working for money' activity) (2) not to move anywhere that has less access to Nature than I currently enjoy (and it is relatively a lot for an Urbanite :).

I am sad at leaving Shanti, who has been my go-to friend and confidant ever since she came to live here 21/2 years ago, so significant in my life that she even has her own section on my blogMAP. I experienced a lot of grief and sorrow after I received the "move out" call. Shanti herself was fully aware of the situation and comforted me. I received more displays of affection than usual and for a week or so she started spending every available moment with me, including sleeping at my feet or the side of my on-floor futon-mattress at night. I hope there may yet be another opportunity for me to share playful living space with Princess Shanti in the future 🙏!


In the time that I have had to absorb the comfortable feeling of having something pleasant to look forward to, I've been sorting through my stuff and deciding what to let go of. I don't have a lot - everything fits into my small room and I intend giving half of it away. The rest I will store at a friend's, with a box or two in the garden shed at mum's.

I won't be taking much with me to Portugal: camera, laptop, sleeping bag, clothes, a few (note)books and personal props. I intend to keep blogging about the experience, perhaps even introducing people to the blockchain revolution if there is any interest. The weather in the Algarve is mild: approx. 10o - 30oC (50o - 80oF) and the property is situated at an elevation of 500+ meters, looking South to the sun and with views out to sea.


There are some other volunteers in residence and accommodation is tents or indoors, depending on the time of year I guess. There is a system of renewal every two weeks whereby both parties ask / answer the question "Do you wish this voluntary relationship to continue for another two weeks?" - Brilliant!

Organised communal activity ('work') takes place Mon - Fri for 6 hours per day, starting at 9 in the morning and with a break for lunch. Farming is done on terraces, a sight familiar to me from India and my childhood (boarding school!!) in the foothills of the Himalayas.


During our Skype meeting, D & S mentioned that there were various other communities in the area, each with their own angle and slant on alternative lifestyles. They encouraged me to explore around to see if any might interest me. This too is fantastic, for it gives me flexibility as well as backup. As S stated (and I agreed), both parties would know within a couple of days if the arrangement would work out mutually or not, no hard feelings.


The Algarve is beautiful, and on S & D's farm there is Nature all around, above and below. I passed through coastal Algarve briefly in 1992 when hitch-hiking around the Mediterranean and actually spent my 20th birthday in Lagos. Living and working on the land will mean no longer being exposed to the draining energies of the rat-race Matrix, whose parasitic tentacles seem to penetrate even the most balanced of approaches - I shed no tears at this parting :). Instead, I will be learning, creating, discovering, sharing what I know/have learnt ... much more.... a sense of freedom and liberation. Full self-sufficiency will follow with the lunification of crypto ;).

This has all happily conspired in smooth and painless steps. I'm very pleased with developments and am grateful to S, D and my sister; and all the people who have contributed with comments and good wishes, as well as to the enigmatic dynamics of Life and the Universe that have brought this about in blasts of benign synchronicity!

I also acknowledge myself, for taking a step over the edge and finding rock-solidity rather than empty air under my feet!

Thanks for reading 🔆

page divider dk green stars.png




Authors get paid when people like you upvote their post.
If you enjoyed what you read here, create your account today and start earning FREE STEEM!
Sort Order:  

Congratulations! Sounds like a great opportunity. Good luck on your adventure. I'm looking forward to hearing about Portugal.

Thanks for reading and following developments my friend, and for your continued good wishes 🔆

It's really heartwarming to read your post Barge. I'm pleased that things are working well for you. It's quite inspiring to see you making this leap.

Cheers Cams, might yet be able to visit Arran before I head 🔆

hello @barge I just happened to check ginabot today which i rarely do due to my thesis and work and your "matrix" title caught my attention 😀

I'm sad that you're leaving Shanti but I'm sure she understands and supports you in this. At the same time I'm excited for you!

I was also surprised that you'll join WWOOF, im not really updated recently, and you also mentioned Workaway. I was just looking into that!

I haven't said this in publicly, ok now I am about..I have quit my job!!! Bravest thing I've done. I resonate with what you said about "working for money". It's scary because it will be the first time I'll be out of what I thought was my stability. And then I learned about work exchanges like Workaway and now I'm excited 😀

Looking forward to your wwoof posts!

Hey Wanderlass, nice to hear from you and congrats on quitting your job - amazing really coz I remember a year or so ago how you blogged about it getting you down and stressing you out. Sounds like you may have done yourself (and your health) a big favour, scary as it may be to step away from 'stability' and out into the unknown (that's how I feel anyway :). But then what value is 'stability' if it just pays the bills and has the side-effect of suffocating you slowly and painfully???

Shanti's been a great support. I'm brushing her winter coat off atm and have bucketfuls of fluff - sometimes she's ok with it and other times I follow her around the house and garden coz she tries to get away :). I still get pangs of sadness at the thought of moving away, but I've done my deep grieving - shedding tears cuddled up to her, and working through to an acceptance of this as best and necessary. I also accepted that I don't really need to worry as such, coz at a deeper level I know I'm going with the flow and that I'll be taken well care of. I'm much more upbeat about it all now 🔆

Good luck with finishing off your thesis and may you find something fulfilling. Thanks for stopping by 🤗

Sorry for the super late reply. I agree that I've done myself a big favor. I'm excited to be finally be free and it feels like there are more opportunities outside the stability.

I haven't checked your page yet for updates but hope you enjoy the most of your time with Shanti if you're still there. I wish you all the best on your next adventure!

I'm still around until mid-end Sep and defo making the most of my time with Shanti :) ........ defo. more opportunities outside the box of 'stability' (nice way of putting it), even if they may take a little time to present themselves! Thanks WL 🔆

Highly rEsteemed!

Great news and will be looking forward to the updates. Very impressed with the hand stand and want you to know how important it is to keep your spine rejuvenated. Don't break your Back on this excursion, but instead enliven your core connection. Kindest regards Bruv!


Bacon Fiction 2.png

Excellent timely advice: am only just getting back into stretches and yoga after a lapse. Very much an intention to enliven core connection - with Earth, with myself, with the grains of sand in which universes may be (but not that maybe ha ha) perceived.

🙏 🤗 🔆



  ·  last year Reveal Comment


This post has been manually curated, resteemed
and gifted with some virtually delicious cake
from the @helpiecake curation team!

Much love to you from all of us at @helpie!
Keep up the great work!


Manually curated by @priyanarc.

Thanks guys 🔆

You've been visited by @thistle-rock from Homesteaders Co-op.

Wishing you a wonderful adventure; we certainly would look forward to hearing much more about self-sufficiency, sustainability and homesteading from a new perspective!

Homesteaders Co-op

A community marketplace of ethical, handmade and sustainable products available for STEEM, SBD (and USD): https://homesteaderscoop.com/

follow: @homesteaderscoop

Many thanks @thistle-rock and HSCoop 🔆

Sounds like an amazing adventure, and just what you need! I look forward to seeing Portugal through your eyes. Leaving in September and keeping the summer going all year round is an instinctual calling.

Posted using Partiko iOS

Thank you 🙏 .....beyond the (necessary) pain of separation (from current setup, comfort-zone, Shanti etc), this feels very much like what I need and what I want.

And LOL, yes, when I think about it a lot of my travels away from the UK over the years have been at this time of year. I've had periods of 2-3 years without a 'winter' :)

This post was shared in the Curation Collective Discord community for curators, and upvoted and resteemed by the @c-squared community account after manual review.
@c-squared runs a community witness. Please consider using one of your witness votes on us here

Thank you C2 🔆

Hi @barge!

Your post was upvoted by @steem-ua, new Steem dApp, using UserAuthority for algorithmic post curation!
Your UA account score is currently 3.285 which ranks you at #8074 across all Steem accounts.
Your rank has dropped 19 places in the last three days (old rank 8055).

In our last Algorithmic Curation Round, consisting of 181 contributions, your post is ranked at #66.

Evaluation of your UA score:
  • You're on the right track, try to gather more followers.
  • The readers appreciate your great work!
  • Good user engagement!

Feel free to join our @steem-ua Discord server

You got a 19.89% upvote from @ocdb courtesy of @barge! :)

@ocdb is a non-profit bidbot for whitelisted Steemians, current max bid is 40 SBD and the equivalent amount in STEEM.
Check our website https://thegoodwhales.io/ for the whitelist, queue and delegation info. Join our Discord channel for more information.

If you like what @ocd does, consider voting for ocd-witness through SteemConnect or on the Steemit Witnesses page. :)