Hello everyone, welcome to my today topic, I'm wellman, and I hope you have has a great time today, in my today topic, I will like to share a little knowledge on how being gossip and backbite can affect our journey in life and how it can affect our good names we have been building over time, when we find ourselves in that category, what are we going to do, are we to continue or to stop, are we to stop people from this habits or leave them and move on with our life, what I believe is that there is always a good life after the trails. You need to stop and have a better life.

Gossiping and backbiting is the act of immorality and it can tarnishing the images we are being building over years, there is no good outcomes in picknose to someone affairs because when you that it's a great offence and sin, when you find yourself in the mixes of gossipers and people who like to backbite on someone privacy then what you need to do is to make sure you remind them to stop it but if they don't take heed, then you need to excuse yourself from such company. You don’t need to be a leaking bucket and waste your good will you have being building over time by remaining in the presence of gossip or engaging in it. Be alone is most preferably then be in there company.

When you find yourself in the position that is above the person you have been gossip about and you think they can not do anything to tarnish your images then you need to always remember your children, what you do in life will surely come back to back after you have gone. Always wary of oppressing others and checking the ways you make use of your words in public especially when you are in a position of power. Don't be thinking you may getting away with the bad things you say about others in there absent, just know that be it in this world or the next or perhaps both, a severe punishment awaits and you can never get away scot-free without raps what you sow in life, every position you find yourself is a trail and they want to know how far you can perform better without hurting people's emotions.

However, if you are in this category of gossipers and everyday you are finding yourself facing trial after trial, hardship after hardship then it may be as a result of your deeds but with that don’t despair, what you need to do is to change your ways of life and bear good patience and keep yourself from bad company, always know that from all your trials and difficulties, it is only a matter of time before everything will come back to normal but you don’t need to lose hope, when you change your ways in the habit of backbiting then there is always a green light at the end of everything.

Before I drop my pen for today, we need to know that our weakest moments show up the strength of our faith. hen the storm hits because of our bad deed, what do we do is to check ourselves and change our ways from bad to good and make sure we move away from bad company, they can never add good value to our life instead they want to destroyed the good image we are being building from onset. Don't get into gossiping and forget the outcome, the outcome of being gossip is either death on yourself or that of your family. Thanks you so much for your time and I will see you tomorrow with another interesting topic to discuss with you. Make hails when the sunshine.

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