How to handle Hurt by being misunderstood?

in Hive PH3 months ago

This past weeks. I feel like I don't want to open Hive anymore. The excitement gone through me. I felt bad for what happened. For what I have done. I'm so disappointed with myself. I also don't know how to start again. Then I saw this...
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After reading that. I saw myself writing here again. Maybe I'm not on what we call "helping others by what I have seen or studied about" from now on. I'll just focus with my kids, my family, on what we're doing. Also on what I really want to do. I'll stop the thinking of helping others by sharing. Maybe I still can do that but I'll just share their link. Just like what I have done now. Moving forward I'll think first about what might gonna happened before I start writing things. Stop focusing on "I want them to see also how I have seen it" and "I don't want to give them a hard time finding it" or "spoon feeding" I'll just share the link then they can check it out for them to receive the knowledgeable fact about it. Sharing is caring but it's all different in here. I need to be very careful.

Thanks to the people who have taught me that sharing and helping is different from copying it. Now I'm so aware of it. Now I know what to do. Now I have learned my lesson. I'm thankful that I have experienced those things. Now at least I know that I'm not doing the right way. And I need to be careful with what I'm doing here if I really want to stay here and do what I love to do.

Thanks to all of you! I'm still here because I know that I love to be here. Thanks for letting me know because I'm not aware I'm doing it incorrectly. I'm always open for corrections, opinions, suggestions, not so violent reactions. Haha. Thanks everyone! May God bless us all! Love love love.

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What happened? Your posts weren’t controversial in my opinion. Not sure what people are upset about lol

I'm still in the process of learning things about this platform and on how to do my thing here correctly. I still need mentors who will guide me. I'm thankful you're one of them. 👍👍👍
Thanks also for always supporting me here. ❤️❤️❤️

You’re welcome! Sorry I’ve been getting really busy at work this week!

It takes time to learn some of the things on here but a pretty big one people get upset about is plagiarism. I understand why and hopefully they are giving you a break since it was your first time. Just try not to do it again.

A good way to give someone credit is to reference it but also read their post and if you want to make your own post, put it in your own words and summary. That’s helped me in the past do that.

Yeah. Now I know what to do. And how to do it correctly. 👍👍👍

This platform is really different with some other social media. It's not enough to mention the writer or thank the writer that they have taught you things. Just don't copy and paste almost all about the content. Just share the link. That's it. Now I know what to do here. 👍

I have copied a post just the way it is. My purpose is just to share. But I'm not aware that it's still a form of plagiarism. I feel so sorry I've done that. 😭

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