BE THE BOSS OF YOUR MIND
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It's your favorite girl @debbie-ese
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As youths and adults we aspire to be set up our business and be our own boss - which is somewhat not easy. But, the easy one which is being the boss of your mind, we somehow don't know how to do this.
Is being the boss of your mind too difficult?
Confident minds don't have to rely ultimately on people's judgment before they make their decisions. They don't allow their approval or rejection be based solely on the influence of people around them. They are open to hearing the opinions of others but their judgment is not primarily based on it.
Some people send their wife packing or relieve a staff of his duty because someone asked them to do so. No investigation, no verification of the information. Nothing! Some years ago, a popular female actor rejected the marriage proposal from her lover because her mother wanted her to marry a wealthy man. She married the man but later got divorced after some months because she not happy in the marriage. She's still a single woman till date. All because she wasn't the boss of her mind. She didn't follow her heart.
I'm not against giving listening ears to people but think about it and not just accept it hook, line and sinker. Do your analysis before concluding. Most times, people tell us what they want us to know, we can't see their mind, their real intentions. Isn't this enough grounds to refuse to accept anything without thinking, investigating, verifying and concluding?
Be humble.
Be tolerant.
Be confident.
Be smart.
Be the boss of your mind.
Thank you for your time lovelies.
The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕
