How important it is to select with whom we relate to / Personal reflection

@rbalzan79
We are conditioned to imitate certain group behaviors which can influence our habitual behaviors. The idea is to create a comprehensive personality prototype strong enough to decide for ourselves between the good and the bad, the good and the bad. In this way we would have already taken an important step towards our improvement and the model that we could transmit to other people. Therefore I believe that diversity is crucial to train us but you must be cautious and have some additional help if necessary.

Greetings again my dear friends of this prestigious platform, we continue to alternate with each of the aspects related to our existence, whether of a scientific-technological nature, as with everything related to our behavior and that as we know will determine our behavior both towards ourselves and our surroundings.
In this opportunity I want to share with you a topic that many of you may have heard and at the same time have been recommended at some point in your lives. Our parents used to tell us that we should know who we hang out with, since the people around us will have an influence in some way or another in our attitudes, and with that, in our lives, but how far can these people influence us?

There may be several points of view on the issue raised and that is what it is about, since diversity will always be the solution or consolidation of ideas that allow an adequate balance, I think that when each of us are totally focused on what we want, hardly anyone can change our determination, however, it is not always this way.

As we go through each of our stages during the development of our existence, we get to know a great number of people, among whom, without a doubt, we will find an enormous diversity in their behavior, behavior that in many cases we can copy, and it is here where we must always be attentive, and know that we are leaving aside our own criteria and way of being to acquire a behavior that we observe in other people.

Our parents are more aware of us when we are young, since the age of the people counts a lot when it comes to knowing how to select the environment with which they live, however, when we are young we think we know everything and somehow we end up doing the opposite of what our loved ones or parents advise us, this wrong behavior is detected and verified as we are tripping over everything, an aspect that at the time is not so nice, but I think it is necessary to learn how life is.

Therefore, we could say that when we become adults we are the faithful reflection of our capacities when we were young, that is to say, how capable we were of straightening our paths or of having followed the route traced by the advice of our parents (conscious parents, of course), in this respect each person has his own capacity for behavior, and this must always be so, since that is what it is all about, that is to say, with the diversity of thought is that we have made possible the space-time which we have called existence.

Of course, it is always important to relate to people with a winning mentality, that is, with positive behavior and with a desire for constant success, success in doing things well and without harming anyone around us, on the contrary, try as much as possible to set a good example with our behavior, both towards our children who in the same way have to go through their own experiences under our watch, As well as towards the rest of the people who live with us in this increasingly demanding society, in our hands will always be our ability to achieve success, however, it will always be important to take into account the people who come to relate to us and fairly measure their qualities and know how to move away if they are negative and learn from them if they have a positive behavior.

Until another opportunity my dear and appreciated friends, I hope to be able to count on your excellent contributions and to consolidate the subject raised in this opportunity.

Greetings @rbalzan79 Since we were children our parents try to educate us in the best way and that we are equal or better than them and they used to tell us "Tell me who you hang out with and I will tell you who you are" that phrase stayed in my mind and with the passing of time, one tries to consolidate healthy friendships or friends are away from difficulties.
Thank you very much for sharing your publication

Nice day friend, of course it is important to select with whom we relate, but this changes in the stages of our lives, when children we cannot control it and we are affected in a positive or negative way without being able to avoid it, as we grow we can be more selective, our parents said "tell me who you hang out with and I'll tell you who you are" there is a bit of truth in that, we just have to become more selective with the people we let into our lives. Regards

Interesting piece. Thanks for sharing

Hi friend @rbalzan79, your post reminded me of a popular Venezuelan refrain, often used by parents to guide their children in adolescence "tell me who you hang out with and I'll tell you who you are".

This then also applies to who you want to achieve in life, we often relate to people related to our interests and plans, even when it is necessary to do it in a broader way respecting the differences.

Thanks for sharing this very interesting topic.
Regards