Relationship and Freedom

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Does being in a relationship buys your social freedom? I do not know your case but I would love every one reading this to grab my point.

I do not mean to instigate any fight among couples, I just want to clear the air on some very disgusting attitudes I have seen among couples, whether married or courting.

Why stop your partner from associating with people for reasons like because you have a right over them? I mean some go as far as stopping their partners communication with old friends and possibly monitoring their movements.

It is WRONG, really wrong please. The men are fond of these sense of entitlement and supremacy. I am not disputing your place as a man, but if you are free to flex around, associate, your woman should not be an exception as far as she is not doing something wrong.

Stop trying to create a cave for your partner, if you feel he/she is going out to do something bad, why not offer to join them atleast you get to see what exactly he/she is going for.

Really you that has stopped your partner from being herself, do you think you are doing good for yourself? You are gradually building hatred and regrets in the heart of your partner and you Don not know what to expect at the end.

Let me correct you, love is not a reason for such attitude neither is jealousy a better reason. So don't hide under the claims of love and jealousy to maltreat your partner!