Greenlight!

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Greenlight

I was asked once if a lady giving the man "greenlight" shows bad of the lady or is it just the men's thing to do? Greenlight is just a cover word for you trying to show a person you are interested in them.

I don't see anything bad in single ladies showing any man greenlight, but in my part of the world, such ladies are seen either as prostitutes, or desperados. Which is a really bad thing to think of.

I mean guys often ask if it's only the men that have to go all out in trying to get a woman's attention, but the same men seem to look down on women who go out of their way to get the attention of a man they admire.

Some women even think of such women as been indecent and undeserving. Well, I'm of the mindset that you go for what you want if you have the courage but please do it in a decent and honorable way.

Because you like a man, doesn't mean you should dress indecent in order to seduce him, men could also be cunny you know, they will pretend to like you or better still they will think all you are offering them is your body, once they get that, they are gone.

If you like a man and decide to get his attention please, show yourself some respect in the process, don't force yourself on any man. I would prefer you find out if this man is dispose to liking you as well before you step on that gear.

Some men could be shy actually, even when the feel same for you, they want to be sure you will not stand them up, so they will be waiting for your greenlight, if that's your case then you are lucky.

All the best!