Don't fight the existing reality...

"Never change things by fighting the existing reality...to change something build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete."- R. Buckminster Fuller,

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The existing reality was brought into play a while before now and it tends to be what we have per time. It is the now and whatever it presents is what it ha to present and will continually be about the now until it ceases to be.

What you see as your reality is way different from what I see or what the next man sees. We interpret our realities based on how we perceive it.

Looking to change what is the reality does not just happen and cannot just happen because we think it is meant to be changed... a new reality has to be built to replace the existing one.

Change is supposed to be deliberate and purposeful and not a process of war.
If the reality is not the picture we want, we cannot fight it but work it out. The reality is worked on and worked out until it takes center stage of our lives and time.

Fight all you want and make noise even with the loudest of speakers; if your new model idea or proposed change cannot make the present obsolete, it is never going to be someone else's reality.