My Wedding: The First Step (Fixing A Suitable Date).

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Hello Steemians

I hope you're having a great day.

Those who follows me should've known that I'm getting married so soon (in this month).

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Marriage is eternal unity of two souls who had met long before being born into this temporary world! - Islamic Proverb (Source).

Here's the short story...
I fell in love with my girl friend long before (more than three years).
Now we're getting married and we're getting married with the blessing of both our family.
That means ... It's gonna be a love+arrange marriage (kinda win win).

At first... I was little sad thinking that I'd get married and gonna leave my single life behind but as days past... I'm getting excited about all of it.

So... here in this post; I'm going to describe a little about the first step of my wedding.

The First Step (Fixing A Suitable Date).

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To fix a suitable date... I had to take a day off from my office.
Had a nice and long sleep.

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Got up, got freshen up and got ready to go to the place of my to be in law.

Went to the shop and bought some fruits and sweetmeats to carry with me to the place as it a manner in our region to carry something like this when you go to fix wedding date.

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Then I went to my uncles (@sajibibon84) house.
Stayed there for a bit and together we set our foot towards our destination.

I recorded clips and captured some photos on the way.

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Then we reached the place after a moment as it was near to the place from where we started.
First we talked with some peoples (family members of my to be wife) in the house and then we spent more time and then it was the time for feast.

I mean... there were many kinds of foods (mainly curries and salads).

Let me show some of em and I bet you'll feel hungry as soon as you see following photos.
So... brace yourself.

Salads.

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Curries.

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These made a nice lunch.

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Dessert.

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I carried these sweetmeats with me (maybe).

It was really a nice feast.
It made me feel like I should marry more for more feasts like this, lol.

Well... then that part got end.

Now it's the time to elders talk.

My uncle went to another room and talked for a long time with parents of my girl friend (to be wife).

Then my uncle called me there and we had a meeting together.
Lots of talking.
The we came to a decision and then it was the time to fix a nice and suitable date for the wedding.

A Nice and Suitable Date.

As it's the month of February and also it's gonna be leap year (29 days in February) we tried to fix a nice date.
I was talking about 29 February (Leap Year) but it didn't happen as it's not gonna be so nice as we'll have to wait for four years to find an anniversary and then another four years and it continues.

My uncle proposed for 20.02 in 2020 and I Liked it as it's really a nice date (20.02)... whoaaaaaaaaaa.
Then we came to a decision and fixed the date between us for 20.02 in 2020.

And then we left the place.

Hey hey wait... It's not over yet.
Yeah a nice date has been fixed.
I've shared about the date with many peoples even with many communities here in steemit and many people liked the date.

But then... then I needed to change the date after some days cause 20.02 is Thursday and in our country; public holiday is at Friday.
So all the service holders (From family) may not be able to join my wedding.
For this reason... I had to change the date and then fixed 28.02 in 2020 and it's final till now.
Till now means... yeah we've already printed my wedding card and I even gave em to most of my relatives, friends and colleagues.

So it's been fixed and final.

I'll come with another story... with another step of my wedding so soon.

BTW... I've recorded and shared a small vlog of that day... I hope you'll be happy to watch that.

This is all about this post.
I hope you enjoyed.

"The End"

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Congrats my brother.. May the LORD God bless your union continually.

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Thanks u so much for your nice comment and blessing.

Much appreciated.

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