#MomLife // Week 22: Day #2 ||How to Teach Your Toddler to Share // Cómo enseñarle a tu bebe a compartir|| [EN/ESP]
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Welcome once again to my blog and to @motherhood's weekly challenge with the #MomLife initiative, this time starting week # 22 to share with you what our life is like and the day-to-day life of our children through each experience and anecdote.
Bienvenidos una vez más a mi blog y al reto semanal de @motherhood con la iniciativa #VidaDeMamá, en esta oportunidad iniciando la semana #22 para compartir con ustedes como es nuestra vida y el día a día de nuestros hijos a través de las cada experiencia y anécdota.
Week 22: Day #2 ||How to Teach Your Toddler to Share // Cómo enseñarle a tu bebe a compartir
Well, to be honest, this has been a really difficult topic to deal with regarding my son, because when he was born he was the youngest in the house and his older cousins one is already 12 years old and the other 14, from the beginning he has been very spoiled Especially for them, who are the ones with whom he plays and shares every day, they always please him in what he wants to play, how he wants to play, what toys he wants to lend them and much more, which has made him very spoiled.
Although at first I did not see anything wrong with him since we have been in quarantine for more than a year and obviously I do not take my son out to play with anyone else, he currently has several close cousins of the same age, who have come home to visit him, and I have realized that Jonás only got used to playing with big children who do his bidding. It has been really difficult to integrate him to play with children his age because he always wants to be in control of the game and only shares the toys he wants.
Bueno para ser sincera este ha sido un tema realmente difícil de tratar con respecto a mi hijo, pues cuando nació era el más pequeño de la casa y sus primos mayores una tiene ya 12 años y el otro 14, desde el principio ha sido muy consentido especialmente por ellos que son con quienes juega y comparte todos los días, ellos lo complacen siempre en que quiere jugar, como quiere jugar, que juguetes son los que quiere prestarles y mucho más, lo que lo ha hecho ser muy consentido.
Aunque al principio no le vi absolutamente nada de malo pues tenemos más de un año en cuarentena y obviamente no saco a mi hijo a la calle a jugar con nadie más, actualmente tiene varios primos cercanos de su misma edad, los cuales han venido a casa a visitarlo, y me he dado cuenta que Jonás se acostumbró solo a jugar con niños grandes quienes hacen su voluntad. Ha sido realmente difícil integrarlo a jugar con niños de su edad pues siempre quiere tener el control del juego y solo comparte los juguetes que quiere.
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This has been very difficult for me, I have ended up scolding him and even punishing him so that he agrees to share with his cousins or a friend who comes to visit him, little by little and with great effort he has been learning that he should share not only toys but also some things like Sometimes her sweets because it is something that creates camaraderie and union, it has not been an easy task for me because, as I repeat, it has not been her fault, she simply got used to playing with older children who only focused on their fun.
I think that at the beginning no child likes to share their toys but it is up to us as parents to explain and set an example, I hope this pandemic ends soon and my son can play and better enjoy the games with his friends because that way he will understand better the meaning of sharing.
Esto se me ha hecho muy difícil he terminado regañándolo y hasta castigándolo para que acceda a compartir con sus primos o algún amigo que llegue a visitarlo, poco a poco y con gran esfuerzo ha ido aprendiendo que debe compartir no solo juguetes sino también algunas cosas como a veces sus golosinas pues es algo que crea compañerismo y unión, no me ha sido tarea fácil pues como les repito tampoco se ha tratado de su culpa simplemente se acostumbró a jugar con niños más grandes que solo se centraban en su diversión.
Creo que al comienzo a ningún niño le gusta compartir sus juguetes pero ya queda de parte de nosotros como padres explicarles y darle el ejemplo, espero pronto termine esta pandemia y mi hijo pueda jugar y disfrutar mejor los juegos con sus amiguitos pues de esa manera entenderá mejor el significado de compartir.
Well friends this has been my #2 day of week 22 of this great challenge. Thanks to the @motherhood community for the space they provide us, where we can talk and express our anecdotes and experiences as a mother.
Bueno amigos este ha sido el mi día #2 de la semana 22 de este gran reto. Gracias a la comunidad @motherhood por el espacio que nos brindan, donde podemos hablar y expresar nuestras anécdotas y experiencias como madre.
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