Todos somos especiales|We are all special.

¡Hola apreciados usuarios!

Hello dear users

Hoy vengo de nuevo con mi larga lista de todos los retos que me encantan apoyar. Por aquí tenemos trabajo toda la semana, pero ya sabemos que no podemos publicar diez veces al día, si podemos, pero no debemos. Esas serian las veces que tendría que publicar para poder cumplir con todo lo que me gustaría hacer, ni hablar de poder apoyar con mi presencia en todos los servidores. Agradecida por todos estos espacios que nos han ayudado tanto, en estos momentos de gran incertidumbre...salud para todos.

Today I come again with my long list of all the challenges I love to support. Around here we have work all week, but we already know that we can't post ten times a day, we can but we shouldn't. Those would be the number of times I would have to post to be able to do everything I would like to do. That would be the number of times I would have to post to be able to accomplish everything I would like to do, not to mention being able to support with my presence in all the servers. Thankful for all these spaces that have helped us so much, in these moments of great uncertainty...health to all

Desde niña recibí mucho amor de mi abuela, era muy consentida, recuerdo que mi abuelita siempre me decía que la burla era una emoción muy perversa, ya que era algo que luego se devolvía. Estuve siempre atenta de defender al más débil, aunque me salía caro esa ayuda. Aprendí que podemos jugar, echar broma, pero pasar a la burla es algo despiadado. Esa insistencia día a día a un ser que no se puede defender se paga caro, esa era mi manera de pensar de niña. Siempre he sido de sonreír, solo eso sonreír y servir. Se puede pasar por tonta al ser así, pero también tengo una frase: nunca dejes de ser solidaria, apoyar y sentir al otro en tu propio ser.

Desde pequeña me inculcaron que no podía hacer lo que no me gustaba que me hicieran. En ocasiones no entendía tanta información, mi tía me daba ejemplo con su trato de lo que no debía hacer. Ahora agradezco su fuerza, aunque no sus palabras, que aunque no entendía me dolían, ahora me doy cuenta lo valiente que he sido. Debo confesar que no se qué condición tendría, ya que antes eso no era prioridad, al menos para mi núcleo familiar; se debía aprender y ya. Lo demás era flojera, ñonguera o simplemente necedad.

Llegó la edad de ver la cara de mis hijas al nacer, esos ojos avispados, esas caritas que me avisaban que eran sanas, al menos estaban completas. Luego llegó Gabriel al ver su carita luego de cinco días, ya qué estuvo en incubadora, solo iba a la clínica para amamantarlo . Luego llegó a casa su llanto me avisaba que algo pasaba, hoy en día veo que el amor puede lograr y revertir muchas emociones y situaciones adversas. Ellos aprendieron a respetar al otro. Vieran lo que vieran en casa hablábamos, ver a los demás compañeros jugarse de manera cruel con otros niños era para ellos de gran angustia.

Ya sabemos cuanto dura un año escolar y qué todos los días un niño por ser no tan rápido o simplemente estar aislado fuera blanco de burlas era muy triste para mis hijos. Lo entendía muy bien. Luego les comentaba, pensar por un momento de que fueran así, lo que podían sentir esos niños, me iba al futuro, "imaginan tener un niño con esa condición", sus padres todo el sacrificio que hacen, de verdad yo era un fastidio. Ver a esos compañeros de clase trabajando en estos momentos es una gran satisfacción, una de ellas estudió idiomas, nos comunicamos por facebook. El amor tan grande qué recibió de su abuela, madre, hermanos y familiares fue ese gran y bendito medicamento, sin duda una gran terapia.

Since I was a child I received a lot of love from my grandmother, I was very spoiled, I remember that my grandmother always told me that teasing was a very perverse emotion, since it was something that was later returned. I was always attentive to defend the weakest, although that help cost me dearly. I learned that we can play games, make jokes, but to go on to mockery is something merciless. That insistence day after day to a being who cannot defend himself is expensive, that was my way of thinking as a child. I have always been to smile, just smile and serve. You can pass for a fool to be like that, but I also have a phrase: never stop being supportive, support and feel the other in your own being

Since I was a child I was taught that I could not do what I did not like to be done to me. Sometimes I did not understand so much information, my aunt gave me an example with her treatment of what I should not do. Now I am grateful for her strength, but not for her words, which although I did not understand hurt me, now I realize how brave I have been. I must confess that I do not know what condition I would have, since before that was not a priority, at least for my family nucleus; one had to learn and that was it. The rest was laziness, nerdiness or simply foolishness

The age came to see my daughters' faces at birth, those sharp eyes, those little faces that told me they were healthy, at least they were complete. Then came Gabriel when I saw his little face after five days, since he was in the incubator, I only went to the clinic to breastfeed him. Then he came home, his crying told me that something was happening, today I see that love can achieve and reverse many emotions and adverse situations. They learned to respect each other. No matter what they saw at home we talked, seeing their classmates play cruelly with other children was very distressing for them

We know how long a school year lasts and that every day a child for being not so fast or simply being isolated was the target of ridicule was very sad for my children. I understood it very well. Then I commented to them, to think for a moment that they were like that, what those children could feel, I was going to the future, "imagine having a child with that condition", their parents all the sacrifice they make, I really was a nuisance. Seeing those classmates working right now is a great satisfaction, one of them studied languages, we communicate by facebook. The great love she received from her grandmother, mother, siblings and relatives was that great and blessed medicine, without a doubt a great therapy

La abuela de nuestra amiga Ailing, contaba que fueron momentos de mucha angustia, luego iba creciendo, entre terapias de lenguaje, odontólogos, otorrinolaringólogo al darse cuenta que no escuchaba bien, por esta razón no atendía al llamado, citas interminables a cualquier cantidad de médicos, pero con su autoestima tan alta, segura, confiada, siempre integrada a los grupos, es una persona igual a todas, cómo siempre se sintió, cómo siempre la hicieron sentir su grupo familiar y de amistades cercana.

The grandmother of our friend Ailing, told us that there were moments of great anguish, then she was growing up, between speech therapies, dentists, otolaryngologist when she realized that she did not hear well, for this reason she did not attend the call, endless appointments to any number of doctors, but with her self-esteem so high, secure, confident, always integrated into the groups, she is a person like everyone, how she always felt, how they always made her feel her family and close friends group

Solo queda decir, qué todos somos especiales. Siento que integrarse a grupos para que los niños que tengan esta condición puedan disfrutar de un ambiente cálido, crear ambientes donde se puedan reunir es de gran ayuda, que tanto los niños como los padres puedan recibir ese apoyo tan importante, esa palabra de ánimo es de gran ayuda. En la iglesia muchos padres llegaban con sus niños, contando su testimonio y recibiendo oraciones del grupo, que los fortalecían. Solo hablo desde mi corazón, mi alma, con las ganas de que se pueda avanzar siempre.

I can only say: We are all special. I feel that joining groups so that children with this condition can enjoy a warm environment, creating environments where they can meet is a great help, that both children and parents can receive that important support, that word of encouragement is a great help. In the church many parents came with their children, telling their testimony and receiving prayers from the group, which strengthened them. I only speak from my heart, my soul, with the desire that we can always move forward

I can only say: We are all special. I feel that joining groups so that children with this condition can enjoy a warm environment, creating environments where they can meet is a great help, that both children and parents can receive that important support, that word of encouragement is a great help. In the church many parents came with their children, telling their testimony and receiving prayers from the group, which strengthened them. I only speak from my heart, my soul, with the desire that we can always move forward

Nuestra Ailing, estaba en todo, estudió con mis gemelas por cinco años, donde veíamos su evolución, ese desarrollo y sus risas era motivador, luego su hermano más pequeño con asperger. El amor vence cualquier barrera. Todavía nuestra Ailing es muy farandulera, ya sin aparatos en su boca, ni piernas es más ágil, con su misma ternura.

Our Ailing, she was in everything, she studied with my twins for five years, where we saw her evolution, that development and her laughter was motivating, then her younger brother with aspergers. Love overcomes any barrier. Our Ailing is still very showy, now without braces in her mouth or legs, she is more agile, with the same tenderness as before

Todas las imágenes son de mi álbum familiar, pueden conseguirse en redes sociales. Mi firma realizada con aplicación Social Media Post desde mi celular Samsung J4. Traductor utilizado DeepL.

All images are from my family album, you can get them in social networks. My signature made with Social Media Post application from my Samsung J4 cell phone. Translator used DeepL

A los padres y representantes... no se rindan jamás.

To the parents and representatives... never give up