SEX IS IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE.
Hello everyone in the house how is life treating you, I believe life is fair with you all.
Today I'm gonna discuss about SEX IN MARRIAGE. important of sex, why we have sex, benefit of sex, and the healthy aspect of sex in man and woman.
Why I choose to write on this is because when it comes to this particular topic "sex" everybody gives a deaf ear this three letter word is no go area especially in the body of Christ it sound so canal to the ear. My question is if this is that bad as we think why did God create it? Why did he even bring the idea of making woman out of man and then ask them to be together, he even mention reproduction. If he didn't want these three letter word to happen, he would have stop in Adam alone he shouldn't had gone further to make woman out of man. And said unto them go ye into the world reproduce replenish the earth. So why do we see SEX as abomination? Why is it that whenever it is mention, is as if everyone is thrown into confusion? In some congregation it is a taboo even in marriage ceremony which is very important? Today I want to talk about it reason is because many homes has broken, tear apart because of this three letter word Sex.
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Sex what it is.
Sex is a trait that determines an individual's reproductive function, male or female, in animals and plants that propagate their species through sexual reproduction.
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Sexual intercourse is sexual activity typically involving the insertion and thrusting of the penis into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both. This is also known as vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex.
Wikipedia (source).
God was interested in population which is the main reason he created the vagina and penis he knows that this two must come together in sex for reproduction to take place. Which other way, something must meet with something for something to happen. Sex is God's divine he created it knowing fully well that man can't do without this is what makes man, man.
Now if you ask a man why he want to marry or why he is married the first answer that will come out of him is I want to have children, so that I will have sex without being guilty This is the answer you have to them that is their reason. but to some like the unmarried man their answer will be, to have pleasure, to make me feel like a man and so on. To some to revenge, to some for companionship, to some they are being attracted by the opposite sex beauty.
But I when I did research on this topic I realize that there Is more to it than just having sex for the above reasons. On my careful study I notice that sex is an antidote to better health. It keeps the body going smartly, when one is involved in sex regularly it help. sex is exercise, exercise keep you fit help fight heart disease. This brought me to this point
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Why do we have sex?
Physical reasons: Pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person. Goal -based reasons: To make a baby, improve social status (for example, to become popular), or seek revenge. Emotional reasons: Love, commitment, or gratitude.
But do you know that
A good sex life is good for your heart. Besides being a great way to raise your heart rate, sex helps keep your estrogen and testosterone levels in balance. “When either one of those is low you begin to get lots of problems, like osteoporosis and even heart disease,” Pinzone says. Having sex more often may help.
WebMD. (Source) www.webMD.com
The one that really motivate me is the important of this subject. Naturally we humans are so depressed, we are anxious of nothing being carry away by emotion this and many more weigh us down slowly unknowing to us. but the moment we are with our loves one either by hug or a kiss you will notice that all that burdens you carry will be forgotten in a second let alone being involved in hot sex believe me you will never remember that few minutes ago you were so depressed and down. Sex should be emphasis especially for the married couple. When our men is being load with a lot of loads in work place, office, business premises, church during the day I think the best gift and love and warmness a woman should give to the husband is a very good and hot sex that will calm his nerves and make think normal again.
Our women shouldn't starve their men of sex again. If you want your man to live longer give him sex regularly let that love flows don't be ashamed of giving your man sex. it is right it is divine save that man from many stress and help him live. The main reason you are there is to help him don't denied him sex, attention, love, affection, friendship not until when you lose him to another woman you start crying and prayer. Aside from praying, do the needful men are like babies they need you more than you need them. As a mother you where made, show him that mother love and affection Feed him with sex whenever he want it.
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Sex is an important factor in your life
Sex and sexuality are a part of life. Aside from reproduction, sex can be about intimacy and pleasure. Sexual activity, penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI), or masturbation, can offer many surprising benefits to all facets of your life:
physical
intellectual
emotional
psychological
social
Sexual health is more than avoiding diseases and unplanned pregnancies. It’s also about recognizing that sex can be an important part of your life.
American Sexual Health Association. (Source)
Benefit of sex in men
A recent review found that men who had more frequent penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI) had less risk of developing prostate cancer. Trusted source.
One study found that men who averaged having 4.6 to 7 ejaculations a week were 36 percent less likely to receive a prostate cancer diagnosis before the age of 70. This is in comparison to men who reported ejaculating 2.3 or fewer times a week on average.
For men, sex may even affect your mortality. One study that had a 10 year follow-up reported that men who had frequent orgasms (defined as two or more a week) had a 50 percent lower mortality risk than those who had sex less often.
Although results are conflicting, the quality and health of your sperm may increase with increased sexual activity, as some research suggests.
As men need sex, so women need sex too men should always make love to their woman, with a warm hug, kiss and sex this help them it is scientifically proven that sex help women in many ways
Benefit of sex In women
Having an orgasm increases blood flow and releases natural pain-relieving chemicals.
Sexual activity in women can:
improve bladder control
reduce incontinence
relieve menstrual and premenstrual cramps
improve fertility
build stronger pelvic muscles
help produce more vaginal lubrication
potentially protect you against endometriosis, or the growing of tissue outside your uterus
If we women sees the important of sex and give our men sex whenever they want it I don't think we will have broken homes. Because one the reason we have divorce everywhere is because we are too sanctimonious and this has sent men outside their home.
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Note:: when your man is been satisfied sexually outside than inside it will be very hard to have him back. Be the one to satisfied him sexually everyday I promise you he will never look outside. Remember sex is antidote for good health, sex is life for all, sex is exercise that keep you fit as a married woman engaged yourself and husband in sex and see him look fresh and happier for you.
Thank you for your time remain bless I love you all ❤.