MY LIFE AT THE MOMENT IN SCHOOL
Last week Saturday, I went back to school because this last monday was the said date which academic activities would resume. Truth is, I haven't had a single lecture since Monday because our lectures are supposed to be online and the school is yet to configure my department VLE (virtual learning) on Google Classroom. Though, I have heard other departments have begin their lessons since Monday.
I have been in my hostel since my birthday which was 3 days ago and haven't gone out. The reason is that I am not used to vibing with people or making friends around so I prefer staying indoors with my guitar. In fact, I can stay for a month so far food, water and Internet is available for me.
Talking about internet, that seems to be one of the problems I am facing here. I get frustrated most times waiting for service to come up and this has really reduced my activities here.
One more issue I have is a fellow student in my hostel. Damn somehow, she's frustrating and not minding her business. Why so, she noticed back from home we attended the same kind of church and she's trying to push me to become a member of that same type in school. Not even forgetting, she sees me as an asset to the church (I think) because I play musical instruments.
You may be thinking, what's my problem with her? Damn, she's too pushy and trying to make me come and I don't want to. First, not that I don't want to go to church but I am personally not interested in going to the same type I go at home.
She is not only even asking me to attend the sunday services but to be coming to the bible study. Mehn, I am a few days old in this school and I need some little break to arrange myself in school before getting to involved in other matters outside school plus truth is I am not interested in the bible study mostly because its another technique she wants to use to make me become a member.
Today, I was having a good sleep in my room in the afternoon until her calls came which is to remind me for the bible study. In frustration, I switched my phone to silence and in few minutes she is banging at my door wtf. I got disconnected from my heavenly dreams and when she noticed I was sleeping, she had to apologise and was still asking me if I would be around for sunday services and next week bible study.
Now, I think the big fault here is from me because I wasn't harsh when she first talked to me. Now I feel I should have just snubbed her that first moment but to reduce this frustration from her, I better tell her to give me some good space and don't frustrate me. Or what do you think?
What do you advice me to do? I would love to hear your advice.
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Aw, she has a crush on you! 🤣
Just kidding, but I get you. Seriously, why is she so pushy? Some people don't know how to respect other's boundary.
My advice - do not be scared to say NO. Let her know you don't want to attend the same church or fellowship with her. And start attending the one you want. When she sees you are invested elsewhere, she'll let you be (unless of course, she really has a crush on you 😂)... Okay, lemme be going now 🚶♀️🚶♀️
Lol... Thanks for that. Yeah I should break the NO news to her. I definitely hope she doesn't have a crush on me. I don't want anymore disturbance, the one she has given me is enough 😪.
https://twitter.com/Starstrings1/status/1354474725230178312
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Mister has found a crush lol.
Please leave that babe she trying to win a soul for Christ 😂😂
But I think the push is coming because she already knew you from somewhere.
So breath in and exhale, calm your nerves and let the girl do her thing.
You don't have to be harsh on her but you can simply tell her you aren't interested in joining her in her church and fellowship, simple and period!
Lol... Okay then no problem with that. Thanks for coming by 😊
@zanoz gave the right answer, you can calmly tell her to give you some time to settle. She is doing no wrong by inviting you to join her assembly, but it's profiting if you do this with no pressure.
Exactly, If I do that with no pressure then I gladly do it from my heart, you get. Thanks man.
Yeah, you're welcome
Hahahah... It seems like you are about to be sent to the altar very soon. It's a funny position to be in and l'm just imagining what you will have in your mind whenever she is inviting you to all these programs.
Lolll... One thing l know is that it seems like you have already made up your mind about the church to attend when in school so, changing your mind because of the lady's persistent push won't be a nice idea
Heheh... Continue dodging until you summon the courage to tell her the Koko 🤣
Exactly, changing my mind because of her won't. Moreover, I don't have a good experience of changing decisions because of a lady at all.
Lol, I cannot dodge man. Her room is two doors away from mine. 😅
My advice?
GO OUT AND MAKE SOME FRIENDS. Good.. not that difficult hahahaha
And about the girl... just chill with it... no need to answer in the same second, you also have more things to do and she needs to understend that.
Btw she probably have a crush on you or something hahahahhaah
Funny, yesterday I told her that I wasn't interested. I could read it from her face that she wasn't happy and she told me plainly that I broke her heart 😅😂. Then I replied you are welcome 😂.
aashhhh silly Star