Los Niños Y Los Mejores Amigos. Bilingual/ Children and Best Friends

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Los Niños Y Los Mejores Amigos. Bilingual/ Children and Best Friends

Hola Comunidad Hive, agradecida de que me acompañes.

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Desde hace tiempo, a medida que mi hijo de 4 años va creciendo, he estado analizando como abordar el tema de los mejores amigos con él y estoy segura que a muchas madres y padres les ha pasado igual.


Es un tema a reflexionar porque ya estando en edad escolar, comienzan a relacionarse e interactuar más con otros niños y es cuando se les empieza a escuchar referirse a que los amiguitos son sus mejores amigos.

Los padres en el contexto de que están aprendiendo sobre el tema, lo dejamos así, pero no hay que olvidar que las relaciones amistosas tambien deben ser aclaradas al niño para que sepa desde pequeño a manejarlas.

Que empiezen a reconocer que en su fase fantasiosa los amigos imaginarios, en algún momento van a desaparecer; que aprendan que los amigos deben tratarse bien, sin meterse en problemas, que sea capaz de juzgar cuando ese que considera mejor amigo hace algo indebido que le puede afectar.

Considero que es importante dialogar este asunto, para que nuestros hijos aprendan a tener relaciones amistosas sanas y duraderas. Porque al principio les inculcamos en aras de la confianza, que sus padres son sus mejores amigos, pero sabemos que llega un momento que sustituyen el carácter de amigos de los padres, por la de amigos en sus iguales y ese pensar grupal o de compañerismo con otros.

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Debemos enseñarles que hacer cuando personas adultas quieran supuestamente ser sus mejores amigos porque pueden venir con otras intenciones, darles herramientas para poder ir observando en quien depositar su confianza y amor. Porque ser mejores amigos denota amistad, amor, confianza, empatía y solidaridad.


Al iniciar este post, mencione que es un tema que me ha hecho analizar la forma de abordarlo, quisiera que con un comentario me pudieras decir para ti cual es la mejor manera de tratar este aspecto con los mas pequeños de casa.

Espero te haya gustado este tema.

Las fotografías han sido tomadas con un Samsung J2 Prime y editadas con Canva.
El traductor empleado fue Deepl.com

Nos vemos pronto.

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English Version

Children and Best Friends

Hello, Hive Community, grateful that you're joining me.

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For some time now, as my 4-year-old son has been growing up, I've been discussing how to approach the subject of best friends with him and I'm sure many mothers and fathers have done the same.


It's a topic to reflect on because once they are in school, they start to relate and interact more with other children and that's when you start hearing them refer to the little friends as their best friends.

Parents, in the context of learning about the subject, leave it at that, but we must not forget that friendly relationships must also be clarified to the child so that he or she knows how to handle them from a young age.

Let them begin to recognize that in their fantasy phase, imaginary friends will eventually disappear; let them learn that friends should treat each other well, without getting into trouble, that they should be able to judge when the one they consider to be their best friend does something wrong that could affect them.

I think it is important to discuss this issue, so that our children learn to have healthy and lasting friendships. Because at first we instill in them, for the sake of trust, that their parents are their best friends, but we know that there comes a time when they substitute the character of the parents' friends, for that of friends in their peers and that group thinking or companionship with others.

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We must teach them what to do when adults supposedly want to be their best friends because they can come with other intentions, give them tools to be able to observe in whom to deposit their trust and love. Because being best friends denotes friendship, love, trust, empathy and solidarity.


At the beginning of this post, I mentioned that this is a topic that has made me analyze the way to approach it, I would like that with a commentary you could tell me for you which is the best way to treat this aspect with the children of the house.

I hope you liked this topic.

The pictures have been taken with a Samsung J2 Prime and edited with Canva.
The translator used was Deepl.com

See you soon.

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