Conducta Infantil: Reflejo de los Padres// Child Behavior: Parent Reflection
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Con mi hijo/ With my son
On many occasions children are observed manifesting disruptive behaviors, which affect stability in a home or school environment. Infants who have defiant, aggressive behaviors, who do not follow instructions or tolerate authority figures, as well as the opposite behaviors impregnated with sadness, uncontrolled crying and fears are evident.
En esta búsqueda de soluciones, todos los actores involucrados que hacen vida junto al niño, ponen de su parte y colaboran con el proceso. Pero resulta que si la familia en la que crece y se desarrollan estos niños no realiza una evaluación de la dinámica y comportamientos evidenciados sobre todo en los padres, todas estas estrategias se vuelven infructuosas y el recorrido a seguir es cuesta arriba.
El niño hasta los siete años es reflejo de sus figuras más cercanas de convivencia, sus padres. Por ello, mamá que muchas veces realiza diversas tareas, necesita detenerse y autoreconocer si la forma en que ejecuta sus actividades junto al manejo de sus emociones es el mas acertado, así como el tiempo de dedicación familiar si es de calidad aun cuando sea de cantidad.
Una mamá tranquila y con un adecuado manejo de sus emociones proporciona a su hijo una estabilidad, amor y apoyo imprescindible en su desarrollo. Así que a las que somos madres procuremos tomar acciones al respecto, lógicamente autoevaluándonos, identificando los diferentes aspectos en que nos desenvolvemos y accionando para mejorar nuestro interior y dar a los hijos una madre mas saludable física, psicológica y espiritualmente.
Thus begins a series of questions, aimed at what the child does and corrective measures to this situation, begin cycles of psychotherapy, reward - punishment strategies, methods of reconciliation, all efforts towards the modification of this inappropriate behavior.
In this search for solutions, all the actors involved, who make life together with the child, do their part and collaborate with the process. But it turns out that if the family in which these children grow and develop does not carry out an evaluation of the dynamics and behaviours evidenced above all in the parents, all these strategies become fruitless and the path to follow is uphill.
The child up to the age of seven is a reflection of his closest figures of coexistence, his parents. For this reason, mothers, who often carry out different tasks, need to stop and recognize if the way they carry out their activities together with the management of their emotions is the most appropriate, as well as the time dedicated to the family if it is of quality, even if it is in quantity.
A calm mother with an adequate management of her emotions provides her child with stability, love and support, which is essential in his development. So those of us who are mothers should try to take action in this respect, logically self-evaluating, identifying the different aspects in which we develop and acting to improve our interior and give our children a healthier mother physically, psychologically and spiritually.
Mi esposo y mi hijo/ My husband and my son
The father also plays a great role in this relationship with his son, as an authority figure who teaches limits, duties and the self-esteem of his role. The father must also evaluate himself and, together with the mother, reconcile the proper way to handle the upbringing.
A home immersed in fights, arguments, rudeness, beatings, shouting, does not represent the ideal atmosphere for the child to grow up healthy and although many families know how to hide it well, I inform you of my hivelovers, that their children reflect and show before others reality, because they are authentic, spontaneous and show themselves as they are, reflecting like a mirror what happens at home
Mi Hogar/ My Home
So, before we judge the child's behavior alone, let's take a mirror and reflect what's going on on the four walls of that home, and if necessary as we take the child to therapy, let's be honest and go too. Because in modifying child behavior, whether parents are together or apart, they are the key to achieving the ultimate goal, which is a child with an emotional intelligence that allows him/her to live a full and happy life.
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