Life is never perfect ... but this Vegan Chilli is

in GEMSlast month (edited)


Yesterday, I passed a girl waiting in the front of the shop. I said good morning and she politely responded with hello, then turned to another person and said this:

If only I were as thin as her, everything would be perfect.

Nope. You will still worry, get angry, feel inadequate, anxious, afraid and lonely. You will have periods of feeling hopeless. Other people will hurt you, and you'll likely hurt other people. You will compare your looks, clothes, skills, and sucess to others. You won't have enough money to do or have everything you want. You will stress over making the right decision, and regret decisions you've already made. Your job will leave you feeling overworked and underappreciated. Friends will let you down. Your husband will forget to do the dishes. Children will be a handful. Parents will, well, be parents. Cars will break down. Traffic jams will happen, especially if you live in the south and it's fall.

Oh, and airplane chairs will still be horribly uncomfortable.

I didn't actually say that outloud. All I could muster up was an awkward, nervous giggle. Ugh. I'm the worst at finding the right thing to say when I'm on the spot. In my defense, we ran out of coffee that morning, so my brain wasn't exactly functioning. But still...

Life is never perfect, no matter your weight. If you're expecting everything to fall in place once you reach some magic, ideal number on the scale, you'll be sorely dissapointed. And what if you never reach your supposedly ideal weight? Can you not live a rich, fulfilling, long and healthy life?

Losing weight can be - and usually is - life changing, there's no doubt about it. But what makes it life changing is the journey, not the destination.

It's life changing to experience the difference in how you feel when you feed your body clean, nourishing foods.

It's life changing to surprise yourself with how far you can run, how deep you can stretch and how much you can lift when you learn to push past the fear and find your inner strength.

It's life changing when you realize, 'woah, whats this? I actually do like Brussels sprouts!'

It's life changing when you figure out a way to deal with emotions that doesn't involve anyone named Ben or Jerry.

If you've set a weight goal, that's great, but don't forget the little (and big!) sucesses along the way. This is where you'll learn self love. Focus on nourishing your body, and your weight will fall where it's meant to, maybe at that ideal number you had in mind, but maybe not. Find joy in the journey, because a perfect life isn't waiting for you at the other end.

So yeah, life is never perfect..but this quinoa chili is!


Sorry, I really couldn't think of a better transition. But I already warned you I can never think of the right thing to say.

Quinoa Chili Recipe

Feel free to use different vegetables depending on what's in season. I used summer squash because they were selling massive ones at our local market, but sweet potatoes or winter squash might be more fall appropriate. Mushrooms, zucchini, or even kale would be a great addition.

1 avocado, diced
1 cup quinoa, rinsed
2 chipotle chiles, dried
1 bell pepper, chopped
3 cups zuccini or squash, chopped (or kale, or mushrooms)
2 tbsp garlic, minced
2 cans diced tomatoes with juice
2 cans kidney beans, rinsed
1 chopped onion
2 tbsp olive oil
3 tbsp tomato paste
1 tbsp chili powder
4 cups vegetable stock
2 scallions, chopped

Bring water to a boil in a pot and add chilies. Let soak until soft and pliable, about 15-20 minutes. Drain, remove and discard the seeds, and finely chop.

Heat oil in a large pot on medium-high. Add onion, bell pepper and garlic. Cook until softened, about 5 minutes. Stir in tomato paste, chilies, and chili powder. Season with pepper salt and cook another minute or so.

Add squash, tomatoes, and stock. Reduce heat and cook until the vegetables are tender, about 15-20 minutes. Add additional stock or water if it starts to look too thick. Add quinoa and cook, stirring occasionally, until quinoa is tender, about 15-20 minutes. Add beans and cook to heat through, about 2-3 minutes. Season with more salt if needed.


Serve, garnished with green onion and avocado.


Yes to all of the above! Love your opening observations, and love some vegan chili! I actually just made some yesterday myself. Always hits the spot, especially with avocado on top. Your version looks absolutely delish!

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When I saw this I immediately imagined a hipster cowboy chowing down on this. What a cool and different take on chili. This is a dish every family makes in their own special way, but yours is extra special.

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I thought that was a perfect transition to a perfect chili recipe. Looks and sounds absolutely delicious and nourishing.

Me gustó la receta, pero creo que no tanto como la historia del principio. 😄 Muchas gracias por compartir! 🙏

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