**¡Mi niña consentida.! **
The stereotypes of an ideal life, novels, society, sometimes religion, and sometimes even the family itself; lead people to think; that they must meet certain requirements to be an upright citizen. So, then we want outstanding and independent children, but we question them because they do not follow the normal child prototype, leaving aside the fact that each being is different from their individuality.
Mi Experiencia en cuánto al momento indicado comienza así:
My experience as to the indicated moment begins like this:
**¡Empresas Rainbow. Valencia.Venezuela.! **
Mi primer Empleo profesional. Inspectora de control de Calidad. Con miras a laborar en la Gran empresa Sidor o Pequiven de esos tiempos, por la experiencia que estaba adquiriendo de la mano de los mejores inspectores ASME!!! Con un solo nene que ya casi tenía 3 años, era madre soltera
My first professional job. Quality control inspector. With a view to working in the Great Sidor or Pequiven company of those times, due to the experience that I was acquiring from the best ASME inspectors !!! With a single baby who was almost 3 years old, she was a single mother.
**¡Mi nene mayor. Ahora con 17 años! **
Por Él, tuve y dejé muchos empleos. Estar junto a él y verlo crecer era lo más importante..
Because of him, I had and left many jobs. Being with him and watching him grow was the most important thing.
Today I want to tell you about a situation that has been happening to me for about a year, I believe that my fears about it are attracting this unique topic over and over again. Since June of last year, I have known several couples without children, either due to some health condition or because they are of the same sex, and for this reason they do not have children; but they yearn for it greatly.
When meeting these couples, many have been the proposals, from lending my womb, to living in trios to conceive their child, and many other additions. Although I have also met single men who only see in me a projection of giving them a child. At first I thought that my marked maternal attitude could be attracting these people. But I understood that it is one of my greatest fears.
These repeated situations have made me see how desperately a being wants to have a child. I understand that being a parent complements life. You learn, you meet again in your children, you live their experiences, you feel part of their lives, and you experience a unique happiness .. But we are not the owners of life. We are not more or less people because of the number of children we bring to the world, or how beautiful and educated you see the children of others.
I think that a son arrives, when God decides. He comes to live his life, and to bring you the teaching that you need so much to complement you as a Being. Cells of two bodies that wish to have a child come together, and it is God who opens the doors of heaven to send you that angel.
It is so complex to make a person understand the possibility that perhaps they have not had a child, because it is not their time yet; I exhausted myself in giving those explanations; especially because I have three beautiful children, and I am then on the bench of the privileged who does not understand it…. So I decided to write about it
Children deserve care, love, understanding, wisdom, joy, silences, caresses and endless special things to strengthen their trust; and you at the right time will know how to do it well.
Listen to such everyday phrases as: The correct age for a woman to conceive, I also want to be a grandfather, the fertile time for a couple since they have joined, they have been married for a long time and they still do not have children. Many go over and above their health to fulfill their enormous desire to be parents.
The precise time and age to have a child is not established by science, religion, society, or family. It is decided by an energy above us, and the coupling of two bodies that vibrate in the same tune. So that in that way! May you be a child full of blessings and be born with that definite light towards happiness.
**¡Con mi matrimonio llegó mi segundo hijo! **
Some spend their entire lives choosing the right man or woman to conceive a child; others who, on the contrary, ask anyone for a child to fulfill their wish; couples who separate because they do not feel the other party's understanding of the enormous desire to have children; or those who sadly try again and again, and their losses are tearing at their souls. Extremes that only bring anxiety and frustration. Quiet that desperate thought in you.
Life changes from one moment to another, improves or takes a 360 degree turn; and you just have to live and be grateful. Today my 17-year-old son dreams of living with his father in Florida, despite not knowing him personally, he says that he has lived by my side for a long time, and it is time to share with dad. My 12-year-old son is going to live with his father because the marriage is over; He says: Mommy Daddy needs me, he can't be alone, he doesn't know how to make a coffee and even less a market, I must take care of him. So! life is going in a breath with them, and I! I can only love and understand them.
¡Mi muñeca recién nacida!
Let flow and do not despair, trust God and the right thing will come to your life. It flows with the other plans you have made for your happiness. Focus and be grateful for what is abundant in you, so that little by little the gear of your life is making a balance that is coupled to what you think you lack; because when you rush your step too much for wanting to be the owner of existence, you feel more sorry.
Gracias por seguir hasta el final conmigo!. Recuerda que ha esta vida, se viene a Ser feliz!
Thanks for following me to the end! Remember that this life has come to be happy.