When your care seem not to be welcomed, all you got to do is to let go

It is so hearten and sorrowful when you try to check up on people you value so much that you can give out anything you have to save them from whatever situation they may be going through, but to them they see or interpret you positive thoughts and actions as a negative something. At that very moment you just feel so down and confused as to what you really said or did wrong to let them behave that way.

Life is full of surprises though but when you are caught in a situation you only feel so bad of yourself and only does the needful by retracting from whatever you said just to make peace with the person and nature as a whole. There are so many people around this world of ours who just need someone just to ask them of how they are doing and how nature is treating them but they do not get any.

Yet some have such caring and loving people around them but do not value these people at all until they loss them forever. But all the same, such is life and some of these things happen for a reason and in as much as we do feel it's sad, we will be thankful of it in the near by future when we are faced with issues and situations like that.

People do move around and say the world is full of ungrateful people, which I personally do agree with them but I want to let you see it this way too. The earth we are on today will never give you sweets all the time, sometimes it gives us something that is not so sweet and not so bitter too, while other times it gives us bitter. Even in these bitter times some seem to be more bitter than the others.

And so we should not always blame the mass because, certain actions and behaviors of others make them to be so at times. So the sword cut across on both sides, behaviors that were been shown to some of these people sometime ago is the reason why they behavior what we term as ungrateful. So in as much as the world is made up of ungrateful people, we are sometimes the cause of it.

There is this mate of mine who for quite a number of times spoke to me on some issues that he was dealing with and how things were not working well with him. So recently he posted a picture of him and he looked so lean than I know him to be and so as a good mate I asked him if things were ok with him or not. But his reply was too insulting saying me asking him if all was okay with him looks harsh. Can you just imagine that

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