Thinking through our actions before we act make us the being others do not earn

Such a cloudy sky for a Sunday morning and one could easily think that the rain might fall today but it is not always the reason nowadays. The movement of people through the streets are really on the low same as the cabs around. This can easily mean that everyone is enjoying the day so far at their various homes. The day still looks younger and we are to be hopeful that everything will be alright at the end.

This life has so much in it for us that we sometimes loses the real deal of seeing things. We are so emotional on certain stuffs that we over react and say certain kinds of words to people before we realize that all the things we said or do were not exactly the way we thought. This make us so ashamed because of the way and manner we handled issues.

People seems to act before they think of their actions, which cause them to always be the ones that sends out apologies to others. Acting up in situations without getting to the root of the matter will keep you in the dark side of life, which will eventually get you to be the one who is always on the knees with all sort of shame.

I have heard people talk of situations that they have being through that if they were not patient enough to think through them they would have acted foolishly. Also I have heard of situations that people never got to get to the root of matters and ended up at the wrong side of what life in general had for them. We get emotional out of nothing and end up losing a lot.

I know a friend who had this lovely gem as his partner during his tertiary education. And always the lady will just tell him, she was going to s her uncle's place so she could take her fees, little did he know all what the lady kept saying were all wrong. The funny thing is that this guy only knew of this when he happened to meet a sister of her partner back then and asked about how their uncle was doing. Only to be told they had no uncle the man in question was rather her date whim they broke up after school

Same way, I know of someone who created an escrow platform and out of no where some people were just pointing fingers at him for stealing people from their platform. The other party who was accusing this guy had a totally different perception of what the real deal was like, but in other not to bore you with the whole details, when the other party got to listen to the side of the guy, he was left in shame and didn't know what to say again.

One could really imagine the shame that came to him, this is why we are always advised to think through matters before we act, for acting before thinking causes a lot of damage that can never be repaired.

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