Do you dream ? And if you dream, is it still the same tommorrow night ?

You can (have) dreams, but if you don't make goals (translated as "acting and doing something for and with it"), then they will continue to be dreams instead of goals! That goes for a job, family issues or even your marriage, school, steemit but of course also for all other things in your off line life. Life happily continues, whether you put your own plan in it or not. But i think my dreams are a sign. I always tell them to my husband too.

If you dream of something and its good, then it is useful to see how you can achieve that in real life. And if you then make it a concrete goal, you can also take specific steps in the right direction. Because that's what you want after all! The funny thing I can see that now. I was affraid of dreams for a while. I was not affraid but i was petrified !! what if was always the fear the next morning. Now I see that they were actually dreams, and that, deep inside, all different dreams have a message and being affraid is a waste op time. I also have a remember dream thingie, when i wake up its not gone, i can go to the toilet wide awake and back to bed and the dream continues.

I am so grateful for everything I have learned so far in my life. good, painful, sad and bad. It ensured that I could go through every nes process relatively quickly and easily. I say "relatively", because I too had (and still occasionally have) my challenges. But being aware of the NOW, being able to "LET GO ", and “ SAY GOODBY “ being able to see and feel the good sides (and not just the negative ones), and a few more things like that made me look at many situations more objectively. Al because of a dream. It offcourse also can be a daydream or a feeling from my inner voice.

You control the wheel yourself. It becomes increasingly clear to me how important it is to take responsibility for your own life. For your own choices, thoughts and feelings. To be fierce. Stand up for yourself. Situations can "happen" to you, but it is up to you how you deal with it. Here on Steemit its the same, things are here forever and all can be looked up or checked. You make your own choices, and if it doesn't work, you can make a new one any time. Life is a learning experience. You are at the wheel of your own life circle and i hope for you that people love your circle. If they don’t well that is their thing.

Very often we are inclined (yes, I also occasionally) to point our finger at the other person, to place the cause of things outside ourselves. And that makes it difficult to change things in your life, whether online or in real life, because you cannot change another. You can only change yourself and your own behavior. listen when people who know things from experience. And that starts with taking responsibility for it. You realize that you always have a role in your own situation. I hope that this blog will let you know what i meant in DM, and that you will do the thing that is needed, loved and nesseccary . The fact that you are you, made me think about the fact that I had that dream and that the feelings i had turned into questions right in that dream. Today was the moment to adress it and face the fears an the fact that i was right and that alot of people agreed without them knowing that from eachother made me more confident. I know now, what i didn’t knew yesterday, i need to take charge and i will. You are a addition but so am i. For the people that are downvoted, hopefully that will be better, for now i haven’t dreamt about a solution for that untill the next dream i will blog about it and you will be the first one to read ... promise!

Disclaimer : This is a #freewrite from MY life and about MY LIFE EXPERIENCES , and about people who will know what i mean. But its not meant in any bad way what so ever. I had to blog about it #THOUGHTFULDAILYPOST

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